Song of Glory (锦绣南歌) review

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After watching Princess Weiyoung, I read that this was a spin-off/sequel to that story, so I decided to watch it next. However, I found there was almost no overlap at all it really was just set in about the same time period and in a competing dynasty. The Chinese titles do have the same first two characters, but that’s about it. The disappointment from that aside, I did enjoy the show itself and felt much happier about the relationship. There were also some great battle scenes.

Major thanks to cyn lynn for the little recaps that helped me remember the plot for my summary.

Total episodes: 53, about 45 min each (watched it on Viki)

Listen to the OST on Spotify (my fav song is Ying 影=shadow)

Title in Chinese is Jin Xiu Nan Ge 锦绣南歌:
Jin Xiu together is meant to mean beautiful/splendid, but separately, Jin = brocade and Xiu = embroider. Nan = south and Ge = song. So beautiful song of the the south?

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Warning: possible spoilers ahead!

I rated this one an 8/10. I liked the cast and costumes, but not the palace sets, which felt dark and unwelcoming.

I really liked Lige as the assassin, she got such cool costumes and moves! Later on when she mellowed out, her character became less compelling.

It was interesting to see how they dealt with a character to who was already married and fell in love. Still, they kept it pretty simple with him never actually loving the other woman. What a drama it would be if he had to contend with feelings for both!

It was refreshing to see the Princess Consort NOT be the jealous other woman. In fact, the relationship between her and Lige was very affectionate.

They had a parental couple actually close and showing affection for each other, which was really nice to see. The Shen family overall had such a strong bond and they were a really functional family, except for that pesky cousin.

This is on 5 of my lists:

  1. Power Couples
  2. Mystery/Crime Solving
  3. Palace Dramas
  4. Other Dynasties
  5. Lookalikes (Qin Hao, Li Qin)

Tropes/themes in this show:

  • jealous female love rival who thinks she deserves the male lead
  • male love rival who fights to win the female lead
  • side character who also falls in love with main lead, but can never be with them and ends up finding their own happiness with someone else
  • main lead who needs to do something completely against their character to accomplish a larger goal; in the mean time they alienate their loved ones and have a falling out
  • main lead who sacrifices him/herself to save the other
  • swap daughters for marriage
  • arranged marriage that turns out to be with the person they fell in love with in a different context
  • main female dresses as a man and another woman falls in love with her

Show Summary:

Assassins are after Prince Peng Cheng (Liu Yikang), 4th brother to the emperor. He has a reputation for being a bad ruler. Shen Lige is part of the group training to kill him at a dance performance. When she’s practicing dancing (at a brothel?), there’s a mysterious man upstairs who is actually the prince, but she doesn’t know.

Later, at the performance, the assassins are unsuccessful and an arrow is blocked by the prince’s younger brother, Prince Jing Ling (Liu Yixuan). The prime minister Lu Yuan leads the effort to capture the assassins. Pretty much all the assassins are killed and they capture Lige’s disciple sister, A’Nu, who commits suicide to avoid capture. Lige has to watch in horror and keep silent where she’s hiding with her senior disciple brother Chen Shaoxun. She only has a bracelet that A’Nu had as a keepsake of her best friend and dear “sister.”

Lige and her senior disciple brother escape. Wearing the bracelet while hiding out, she is found and the bracelet is recognized. It was the only thing A’Nu had as a child to identify her and now someone from her family’s household sees it. Through some assumptions and misunderstandings, she gets recognized as the Shen family’s long lost daughter and she takes on this identity to seek revenge for her assassin sister and brotherhood. She vows to get Lu Yuan.

In the Shen household, there is a younger cousin, Shen Leqing, who has enjoyed years of being the young mistress in the manor. She’s not happy about being displaced now that the “real” daughter is back. She starts to wreak havoc for Lige. There’s also an older brother Shen Zhi and younger brother Shen Feng.

In her hunt, she follows Lu Yuan to the waterfront one night and hides on a boat, where she runs into a man also observing Lu Yuan. She’s so focused on watching her prey that she barely notices the man next to her. Their interaction amuses and intrigues him. He’s also investigating corruption by Lu Yuan. Her attempt to capture/kill Lu Yuan fails and she is saved by Prince Jing Ling.

Prince Peng Cheng becomes engaged to the daughter of Shen family. Marriages were all pretty much arranged blindly, so they never meet or have a clue who the other is. Shen Leqing wanted to be the one to marry him (she’s been obsessed with him since childhood), but with the real daughter back, Lige is the one who will marry the prince. Lige’s assassin instinct leads her to think of it as an opportunity to get close and kill him, which was her original mission.

She runs into the mysterious man on the boat again and they keep getting in and out of trouble together. They start to develop a bond and make appointments to meet on the boat. She cutely calls him “old man” since he’s a bit older than her. Eventually she starts calling him “4th older brother” because he’s the 4th brother in his family. This is an affectionate nickname and sort of establishes an oppa relationship. Since they’re both after Lu Yuan, they start working together. Neither knows the identity of the other yet.

We eventually find out about the alliance between the Grand Consort (I believe she’s Prince Jing Ling’s mother and Prince Peng Cheng’s step-mother) and Lu Yuan. They’re the corrupt forces in the government.

Prince Peng Cheng already has a Princess Consort (Xie Yunzhi), who is a gentle soul but there is no love between them. She is a good artist and often paints in her palace.

Shen Leqing starts working with Lu Yuan and poisons the bracelet that Lige wears. Prince Jing Ling gets the antidote from Lu Yuan only after promising to go to the dark side.

The Shen dad and older brother get framed for Lu Yuan’s crimes and Lige is heartbroken that her new family might be beheaded. They finally get enough proof of Lu Yuan’s corruption to bring him down, but he implicates Prince Jing Ling to drag him down with him, so ultimately they both escape death (their punishments are tied together?).

Drunk one night, Prince Peng Cheng wants to come clean and tell Lige who he is but she stops him. She doesn’t want to know (because she knows she will be married off soon and won’t get to see him again). He has patiently listened to her say all sorts of bad things about him without knowing it was him. He’s not actually corrupt, but has had to lay low to accomplish his goals and some of his actions can be misconstrued.

Lige goes into the palace prior to the wedding and spends some time there, befriending the Princess Consort, her future sister wife. Eventually Lige helps the Princess Consort find fulfillment in teaching children. That’s supposed to be her happy ending since she and Prince Peng Cheng don’t have more than a cordial relationship.

There are a few close calls prior to the wedding where Prince Peng Cheng nearly visits and sees Lige (and consequently she nearly axes him). He has no interest in this random woman he’s marrying (because he doesn’t know who she really is!). However, something always interrupts or takes him away, so they make it to the wedding night never meeting.

Meanwhile, Shen Leqing has weaseled her way into the palace as a maid to wreak more havoc. She just won’t go away!

The night of the wedding, Lige pierces her new husband with a poisoned knife only to look up and realize it was the man she fell in love with. She’s conflicted and shocked. Thus ensues some madness while they try to cover up the assassination attempt and get him much-needed medical attention. Lige gets Prince Peng Cheng to her senior disciple brother, who runs an apothecary in town with a younger disciple brother. The young disciple brother is super cute and great at inventing weaponry.

There have been some mysterious clues about who their master is and why he wants to murder Prince Peng Cheng. He has taken in all sorts of orphan children to train them exclusively for this assassination for years. But Lige trusts that the man she loves isn’t evil even if he’s Prince Peng Cheng. Lige and her senior disciple brother start suspecting their master. They manage to save Prince Peng Cheng but still need the antidote from their master.

Shen Leqing finds the dagger in the bridal chamber and gets Lige in trouble for an assassination attempt. The Shen family gets implicated again, this time the mother is imprisoned too. Lige tries to save them by explaining her real identity, that she’s not actually their daughter, but they have embraced her and recognize her regardless.

Well it turns out through other clues, they find out that Lige is actually the real Shen daughter. A’Nu only had the bracelet for other reasons, but Lige was kidnapped by her father’s subordinate who felt betrayed. That man, Xu Lin, was the evil master behind the assassins. The Shen dad had to keep the city gates closed to Xu Lin’s soldiers to save the city and they all thought Xu Lin died. He barely escaped, kidnapped Lige, then spent years planning revenge.

At the Shen family beheading, Lige suddenly dies of poison and she blames Lu Yuan. The execution is postponed to figure out what happened. The Shen mom has started to go insane. Turns out Lige didn’t actually die, but she’s stuck in a coma/vegetative/weird frozen state. She is taken to her senior disciple brother’s apothecary and hidden there. Prince Peng Cheng does all sorts of cute/sentimental/romantic things to try to stir a reaction from her.

Shen Leqing finds out her cousin didn’t actually die and goes to kill her. Lige snaps out of it in time to fight. They run off and end up (of course) on a cliff. Shen Leqing eventually falls off, supposedly to her death.

Prince Peng Cheng had to go off to war so now the Grand Consort is creating problems at the palace to try to get rid of him. She and Lu Yuan are plotting to get him killed in the war. The Shen dad gets captured as part of the war.

Shen Zhi (Lige’s older brother) and Wang Zijin, his love interest, are both part of the war effort and while stuck protecting a city, Prince Peng Cheng holds a wedding for them.

Prince Peng Cheng and Lige find themselves in a confusing cave system at some point. It’s inhabited by some local tribe and they are hassling a girl. They save Mei Qi, the girl, who develops a crush on Lige dressed as a man. Lige tells Mei Qi her name is Shen Feng (her younger brother’s name). Mei Qi helps them exit the cave system and then they have to evade Lu Yuan’s men.

Lige carefully plots a rescue plan for her dad and is able to bring him out of the camp. Meanwhile, Prince Peng Cheng has faked his death and Lu Yuan happily takes the corpse back to the palace to deliver the news. Prince Jing Ling is devastated, he has always been on his brother’s side even as he had to pretend to betray him.

Prince Peng Cheng eventually returns from war to catch Lu Yuan and the Grand Consort. They sentence Lu Yuan to death and banishes the Grand Consort from the palace to go be a Buddhist (I think).

Throughout the show, Prince Jing Ling would go to a remote place in the forest and randomly encounter a girl who developed a crush on him. She became his confidante and neither knew who the other was. It turns out she is Lu Wan, the younger sister of Lu Yuan, and eventually ends up staying with the Grand Consort in her banishment.

Lige and Prince Peng Cheng finally get a romantic night to consummate their marriage. The boat they met on (which is owned by the Prince, of course), is their happy place where they had many dates and beautiful memories.

Shen Leqing (not surprisingly) hadn’t died and comes back to trick the Shen mom into unknowingly luring the Shen dad and older brother into a trap where they get killed! 🙁 This girl is evil, how could she do that to the people who raised her? Poor Wang Zijin is super faithful and is determined to be a good daughter-in-law to the Shen family. She embraces her widowship in such an honorable way.

Mei Qi makes her way to the capital seeking the person she thought was Shen Feng. She’s disappointed to find it’s actually Lige, but meets the real Shen Feng and they butt heads but you know they’re going to get together.

All sorts of crazy drama is happening with Xue Qiu, Lu Yuan’s loyal servant. He pretends to cooperate, then testifies that Prince Peng Cheng was behind all the problems. He only tells the truth later when threatened with Lu Wan’s life. He is at least super loyal to Lu Yuan and want to protect his master’s sister.

Prince Peng Cheng falls ill — it was the Grand Consort, who only ever pretended remorse. She used Lu Wan to get at the prince. Prince Peng Cheng is drugged when visiting her and she makes it look like he killed her. He was too weak to get away from her. Prince Jing Ling comes in just in time to see his brother hovering over his mother with a knife. The Grand Consort wanted her son to turn against his dear brother. What a cruel woman.

We then learn that there’s a true mastermind behind the assassination attempts of Prince Peng Cheng and it’s Wang Zijin’s dad! He was devastated that his two sons died and blames Prince Peng Cheng. He was the one who plotted the terrible death of the Shen father and son. Zijin is so heartbroken to learn this that she kills herself to pay for her father’s sins. (What happened to him?)

At the end, the emperor gives an edict to Prince Peng Cheng that Lige needs to die after all the problems. He hides the truth from her and kneels for hours trying to get the emperor to see him, all in vain. He’s planning on taking her away to that cottage they escaped to at one point. They have some romantic time together, then Lige finds out about the edict and quietly commits suicide. He finds her on a swing where they had sweet memories.

Years later, Shen Feng and Mei Qi are married and have a kid. Prince Peng Cheng continues to strive for the betterment of the country. Lige’s wish for him was to prioritize the good of the country. There’s a retreat home they had spent time in that he fills with memories of her. He seems to have some delusion of her being around and it’s so bittersweet.

35 years!

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Wow I’m halfway through my 30’s already. Whenever I see 40, it feels distant and old but man I’m closer to that then anything in my 20’s now. I’ve been watching all these Chinese dramas and whenever I see an actor in their early 20’s, they feel like a baby to me.

As always, I took time off for my birthday and spent it relaxing. I had a massage scheduled in the afternoon, which I went to after spending the morning watching one of my dramas. I then spent the next 3 hours putzing around getting food, lol. I got some groceries at Ranch 99 and saw a cake that looked good, so I bought it. Sadly, it was not to taste, so I’ve frozen it to chip at slowly.

I then ordered Blue Bird Sushi — the BEST vegan sushi I’ve ever had. I got two rolls and two bowls of ramen to go, then went to cha for tea to get boba (two drinks as well). Finally, on my way home I went to get two orders of the potato julienne dish that I really love (tu dou si).

I then spent the night pigging out slowly and watching more of my drama. It was the ideal way for me to spend the day and I only wish I could have eaten more, lol. Nowadays my appetite has shrunk and my mind wants more than my body can handle.

Now that my body is slowing down and breaking down, I really need to focus on treating it better. I’ve never had very healthy habits and I tend to be lazy, but I found a really cool app (FitOn) that will hopefully help me be just a little bit more active. I’m looking forward to a year during which we can finally see friends again and travel for leisure without feeling irresponsible. Maybe I’ll finally make it to Catalina after years of talking about it!

In search of a signature gift

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Once upon a time, I used to have a really great signature gift that I could give people for a variety of occasions: birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, thank yous, baby showers… and then they went out of business.

They were Yuzen box, a subscription box that curated high-quality, eco-friendly products. Everything they did was so gorgeous and well-thought out. Each box included a good mix of skincare, beauty, and bath products, along with the occasional snacks. They also had a men’s version ever so briefly, so I could truly gift to anyone on my list.

new yuzen interior box in rectangular shape with white flowers on aqua background
The interior box is a nice cardboard perfect for reusing!

Now that they’re gone, I struggle to think of a gift that I can so easily pull out of my back pocket to send to people. The closest go-to I have might be Bucky Balls, but I’m still looking for something more classy.

The woman I bought my house from shared with me a very unique tea flavor that I’d never seen before. I don’t know if they’re uncommon in stores, but they’re special enough for her to use as her signature gift when she travels. It also helps they’re so light, so it’s any gift to pack. Perhaps I should also select a favorite tea that I can send to people.

Or perhaps I should finally learn some pottery so I can make silly little things to give to people. Maybe a tiny dipping bowl or a jewelry tray or a mini jug for pour sauce or oil? That would be cool, though I’d have to actually find a place to learn and start making that stuff! It would be cooler than random store-bought stuff, right?

Alternatively, I was talking to a coworker about this and she suggested food. I do make a pretty mean vegan chocolate chip cookie, but man am I lazy. If I had to do that all the time I wouldn’t be motivated. I can only bring myself to do that like twice a year.

Alas, for now I will continue to ponder this issue and keep my eye out for something interesting that catches my eye. I might peruse the online fair trade markets I’ve gotten some fun items from, like GlobeIn or The Little Market. But I certainly won’t compromise until I find something that really hits the mark for me.

The Princess Weiyoung (锦绣未央) review

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I consider this to be the first official show I watched once I decided I wanted a dose of Chinese period dramas set in imperial times. I technically saw Yanxi Palace on Netflix first, but that one is only 6 episodes so it’s really just a short story. Meanwhile, The Princess Weiyoung is 54 episodes and the first time I learned that Chinese dramas all seem to be done in 1 season with 45-60 episodes. Some are shorter with 30-ish episodes, but a lot seem to be around the 50 mark.

Thanks to Deer Drama for the recap and fun screengrabs that helped me with my summary.

Total episodes: 54, about 45 min each (I watched it on Netflix, but later I discovered Viki and it’s available there for free)

Listen to the OST on Spotify (close one, but my fav song is Tian Ruo You Qing 天若有情=if the heavens had feelings, with Lai Sheng 来生=afterlife right behind it)

Title in Chinese is Jin Xiu Wei Yang 锦绣未央:
Jin Xiu together is meant to mean beautiful/splendid, but separately, Jin = brocade and Xiu = embroider. Wei Yang is the main character’s name. Wei can mean “not” and Yang can mean “center,” so beautiful person who is not the center? I have no idea what the intended meaning is, it could just be as simple as beautiful Wei Yang (as a name) and that’s it.

Source: Jayne Stars

Warning: spoilers ahead!

I rated this one a 9/10. Definitely a strong one to start with. It had great actors, characters, costumes, sets, etc. Later on it was a pleasant surprise to discover that the main leads are a real life couple. It makes it cute that they got to work together.

Overall I came out feeling there were too many sad times where Xin’er/Weiyoung and Tuoba Jun had to be mean to each other and suppress their emotions for each other. It was painful to have to watch that over and over again, with very few instances where they really got to be happy and together. Even the ending was so bittersweet, with such a sad underlying tone to it. One of themes that came through in this one that I started to see a lot is sacrificing yourself for the greater cause (usually the good of the country). I wish the personal relationships wouldn’t have to suffer so much to accomplish those goals.

When it comes to Weiyoung’s character, I really liked how she’s very clever and was able to defend herself against those who were trying to harm her. I know it’s not feasible for them to be prepared for everything, but boy do I hate it when the leads get trampled over. That was not the case here, where most of the struggles may have seemed to be doomed, but there was a longer play that would bring them out of it.

The two sisters as very different types of antagonists was an interesting contrast. Changle, the older sister is the one who seems to have it all but really has the most to lose. Changru, the younger sister (actually cousin) is the one who seems demure and innocent but actually has a darker heart than just about anybody. I think they were both well-cast, though Changle’s evil plotting “I’m so furious” face was generally too exaggerated. Speaking of exaggerated things, I found Tuoba Jun’s shivering and suffering scenes to be overdone too.

Of course so much of the misunderstandings and struggles between the sisters are due to the attention of the men in their lives. Weiyoung gets unwanted attention from Tuoba Yu and yet somehow she’s to blame. Tuoba Jun was never into Changle, but she can’t accept that reality and blinds herself into thinking she deserves him. And she blames Weiyoung too. Typical, lol.

I was moderately interested in the real people that some of these characters are loosely related to. There’s a real Tuoba family from Northern Wei with Tuoba Jun, Tuoba Yu, etc. This was back in the 400s A.D. Some of the storyline actually follows reality a little bit, with the order in which the throne switched hands being accurate and a bit about how it all went down having a dose of truth too! Man, life was wild back then.

I put this on 7 lists:

  1. Fav Shows
  2. Keep Your Eyes Peeled
  3. Palace Dramas
  4. Alternate Identity
  5. Smart, Clever, Witty Shows
  6. Other Dynasties
  7. Lookalikes (Luo Jin)

Tropes/themes in this show:

  • jealous female love rival who thinks she deserves the male lead
  • male love rival who fights to win the female lead
  • main leads who need to stay away from and/or be mean to each other to protect each other
  • main lead’s mother who is of low status and gets bullied
  • side character who also falls in love with main lead, but can never be with them and ends up finding their own happiness with someone else
  • main lead who needs to do something completely against their character to accomplish a larger goal; in the mean time they alienate their loved ones and have a falling out
  • main leads who are able to trust each other innately and trick their enemies by seemingly fighting and losing trust or cutting the relationship
  • main lead who sacrifices him/herself to save the other

Show Summary:

Our female lead Feng Xin’er is the princess of the Northern Liang dynasty. Her mother dies in childbirth and a fortune teller says she will have an important future. She grows up vivacious and likes to sneak out dressed as a man with her bodyguard and best friend, Jun Tao. She has a very loving relationship with her father (the King) and grandmother (the Queen Dowager), though her father has been away for a long time in the Northern Wei dynasty (kept as a hostage in Northern Wei, to keep the peace). When he is allowed to return to celebrate his mother’s birthday, Xin’er is very excited and goes out to town to get lanterns. She runs into some trouble and is helped out by a mysterious man who turns out to be Tuoba Jun.

On the night of the birthday banquet, the King’s entire family is ambushed and he is framed as a rebel. In reality, Chiyun Nan, a (very young) general for Northern Wei was greedy and wanted that area and its natural resources for himself. The King is murdered while his daughter and mother watch horrified, hidden away. The women escape with Jun Tao and her father (the head of the royal guards) protecting them but the Queen Dowager stays behind to slow down the troops since she’s old and can’t run very fast and she doesn’t want to hinder the princess’s escape.

Xin’er gets separated from them when they create a diversion so the enemies will think Jun Tao is the princess. She is discovered and saved by Li Weiyoung, the daughter of the Prime Minister and a concubine. Weiyoung was raised in the country, sent away from the family due to her low status and birth date being considered unlucky. She grew up being bullied but she is kind and gentle. The two become fast friends.

Weiyoung’s grandmother wanted her back and sent people to go retrieve her from the countryside to return to the Li Manor. The Prime Minister’s wife didn’t want that to happen, so she sent people to attack Weiyoung. Weiyoung dies protecting Xin’er during the attack and asks her to care for her birth mother, the 7th concubine. Xin’er then decides to take on the identity of Weiyoung so she can repay her friend and also seek revenge. The Prime Minister’s wife is from the Chiyun family and she is the aunt of the general who killed Xin’er’s family.

The Li grandmother’s people show up and take Xin’er (now Weiyoung) back to the Li Manor. Since nobody in the family knew what she looked like, that was easy enough. Along the way, there is another plot to kill Weiyoung and she is saved from a fire by Tuoba Jun, who happens to be staying at the same inn that night. They’re still strangers at this point and neither knows who the other is.

At the Li Manor, Weiyoung meets the Prime Minister’s wife Chiyun Rou, the older half sister Li Changle (Chiyun Rou’s child), the younger female cousin Li Changru, and the younger adopted male cousin Li Minde. The family keeps making excuses to not let Weiyoung see “her” mother the 7th concubine, who is hidden away in one of the courtyards that nobody is allowed to visit.

I’ll try to write more details later… quick synopsis for now: Weiyoung gets framed for being unlucky and is eventually thrown off a mountain, then saved by Tuoba Jun. During her recovery, they bond and fall for each other. Li Minde finds a way to discount Weiyoung’s “cursed” presence and she is brought back to the manor. Weiyoung eventually meets Tuoba Jun officially and thinks he’s her enemy once she learns his identify. She is later is betrayed by Changru once Tuoba Yu (Tuoba Jun’s young uncle) shows interest in Weiyoung (because Changru is in love with him), has multiple struggles with Changle trying to destroy her (because Changle feels like Tuoba Jun should be hers due to the childhood engagement between the two), then is framed for killing Tuoba Jun’s mother the Empress. Along the way she nearly dies a few times, saves Tuoba Jun a few times, gets framed again and again, loses her status, then gets acquitted and given the title Lady Anping. Her servant girl gets killed by Changru when she overhears Changru’s evil plans.

Tuoba Yu forces Tuoba Jun to marry Changle and Tuoba Jun has to pretend to be protective of Changle while keeping her at bay and actually trying to keep Weiyoung from danger. It’s a hot mess and the lovebirds often have to be pretty cruel to each other in public. But they do sneak in some date time. Minde finds out he’s actually the prince of Rou Ran, a neighboring country. Tuoba Yu eventually ascends the throne, Tuoba Jun is poisoned and driven out of town, and Weiyoung promises to marry Tuoba Yu.

As a side story, Minde meets and falls in love with Tuoba Di, a princess. He returns to his country to resume his rightful place and comes back eventually. She almost dies during some attack, but I believe she makes it and they become a couple.

Weiyoung was with the emperor when he died and he secretly told her about passages under the palace, so she finds a way to get the message out, which Tuoba Jun and Minde eventually use to return on the wedding day to overthrow Tuoba Yu. Tuoba Yu and Changru die, but Tuoba Jun is still poisoned and now Weiyoung gets poisoned too. There is only one antidote pill, which they give to Weiyoung. Tuoba Jun lies to her and says he took one too.

They ascend the throne and rule together. Later she finds out his health is declining and they enjoy their final years together. It’s such a sad scene to me, the heartbreak of her knowing he’s dying and trying to cherish every moment. It’s interesting that they did not go crazy trying to seek more antidote somehow. They have a son, who she mentors as the next great leader of the country after Tuoba Jun dies peacefully next to her. I think I was streaming tears at this point, thinking of the future she faced being alone raising her kid to rule the country, carrying on the hopes that her husband had.

Happy National Cat Day!

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I’ve been on an extended hiatus and what better day to come back than on a day to celebrate my favorite animals? I’ve been on a crazy binge-watching spree of Chinese dramas so I hardly want to spend my time doing much else, but for my feline friends it’s worth it.

Plus, I’m a little inspired because I watched alllllllllllllll these shows and I want to write down my thoughts on them before my opinions all fade away after a few months. In a short (less than) 2 months, I’ve managed to blast my way through 9 — count’em — 9?!! series. Other than the first one being a short 6-episode one, the rest have all been about 50-60 episodes each. As I’ve learned, these seem to be the standard for Chinese shows; they’re billed as 1 season, but really they could have been 3.

We’ll table that for now though, I’ll start drafting up posts about the shows I’ve watched and hopefully don’t lose the motivation and momentum I have to get them actually posted. 😛

Today I just wanted to pop back in after soooooooooo long away and share some pics of my favorite kitties. There are currently 3 in my life: Smokey who lives with me, Missy who lives with my parents, and Zephyr who lives with my bestie.

Smokey loves my Moon Pod.
She also loves crinkly things.
Missy has these big eyes and a gaze that is half timid, half curious.
Before my mom took her, she also loved the Moon Pod.
Zephyr is so flat when she falls asleep, and her toes are always curled lol.
She’s a snuggle monster.

That COVID-19 life: Week 1

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It’s 4 weeks into quarantine and we are now halfway through my initial prediction a month ago. When the first whisperings of a coronavirus shutdown emerged, I expected it to be at least 6-8 weeks. I knew the rosy expectations of 2 weeks were not realistic. At this stage, I wonder how much longer it will ultimately extend – another 4-6 weeks, perhaps?

While I know a lot of people are feeling it, I’m perfectly happy to continue like this for a couple more weeks. It hasn’t really changed the rhythm of my life much since I’m a homebody anyway. However, as summer hits I’m sure I’ll start itching to be outside more, especially since my current place doesn’t get much direct sunlight.

I remember back in the first days of March, I braced myself for the “social distancing” that I knew would come. It’s like watching the swell of a wave approach in slow motion. All the signs were there, with other countries at slightly more progressive stages along the curve. Our own comeuppance was inevitable.

Friday, March 13th was the last day of complete freedom I experienced. That night, I had a massage with my favorite masseur. As I was leaving, my phone slipped off the counter and cracked. “No big deal,” I thought, “I’ll get it fixed or replaced this weekend.”

I checked Apple Store appointments but didn’t book any since I wasn’t sure what time I’d have free. “I’ll decide during the day,” I figured. The next day, I drove down to San Diego to meet up with some friends and go house hunting. Bestie is in the market and was looking for a place to move when our lease is up at the end of June.

We toured three homes and then went to get lunch. There were 10 of us total and that was the time when they were telling us to limit the size of gatherings. Ours was just within recommendations. As lunch was wrapping up, I decided to look up a local store to visit to get my phone fixed while my friends went to go charge the car or return to their place to nap.

One of my favs!

To my surprise, all the appointments were gone. “They can’t all be that busy, can they?” I wondered. Well, I kept digging and found out that all stores now listed “special store hours” as closed. Little did I know that the day before, Apple had announced the closure of retail stores effective the first day that I needed them. Just my luck.

So instead I went back to the condo we were meeting at and we watched TV, played an extensive board game, and grabbed dinner at a local pizza place that was quite empty. I figured I was already there with plans to stay overnight, so might as well go through with it and begin my quarantine the next day.

On Sunday, I mentally started to distance myself in earnest. I left for home, stopping along the way for a few errands. The digital signs on the freeway all said “COVID-19, less is more, avoid gatherings” and so I did. At the grocery store, I was able to get some food and supplies for the cat, but water, toilet paper, paper towels, pasta, canned goods, and flour were pretty much gone.

Nothing but LaCroix.
The lady in front of me had her essentials all figured out!

Work had told us we would come in on Mondays and be remote the rest of the time, so Monday we worked a normal day. On my way home, I decided to pick up food from 2 restaurants so I’d be better prepared for the next day and also to support the businesses. At this point, they had put up signs and restaurants were only allowing seating at every other table. I opted for takeout.

On Tuesday, I worked a remote day much like every Friday that we already do remote. It felt pretty natural. My parents had just moved to a new place nearby, so I went to check out the house for the first time and see my mom briefly. My dad was on his way back when I left, and Orange County had already told non-essential businesses to send their workers home. Our company president scheduled an in-person meeting on Thursday, but I knew that by then, we wouldn’t be allowed to meet physically.

That night, Bestie was feeling like a rebel, so he wanted to go get dinner with Terminator and his girlfriend. I was a little reluctant, given I had already mentally transitioned to a state of quarantine, but I figured it was our last night of freedom. That’s when orders were coming down to stop doing dine-in. We took advantage of the smaller crowds to go eat at a place that usually has an hour+ waitlist. We got seated within 15 minutes!

Wednesday the 18th found us with time and motivation to work out! I haven’t really done anything since we left Equinox during the Ross/Trump scandal. Since we weren’t supposed to congregate, Bestie and I decided to go do a nice beach workout. People would pass by, but we didn’t have to get close to anyone. I can’t recall if the 6-foot guideline had been mentioned at that point.

Got my work station groove going.

On Thursday, we did our meeting digitally as I predicted. We only went out to pick up groceries and dinner. It rained a bit but was still sunny, producing a nice rainbow in the early evening. By Friday, I wrapped up the week as a normally do, working from home anyway.

Olive bar had to be closed.

As the weekend rolled around, I decided to go visit Panda and the cats. I was careful not to interact with any other people other than picking up food. My apartment complex shut down all amenities, including the pool and rec room. They no longer accepted packages in person, so deliveries were left in parcel pending if there was room, or on the floor of the package room if there was not.

I hadn’t quite grasped the full brunt of what I was supposed to do – limit my movement to my local neighborhood, so I actually drove around looking at neighborhoods and homes (from the street). Along the way, I saw a ton of people at the beach — more than I thought was safe, given the distancing we were supposed to be observing. I was even going to try going up to a park I always meant to visit, but it was too crowded when I drove by. I didn’t want to risk passing by so many people. Instead I checked out the area by half a dozen homes of interest and enjoyed a gorgeous day in the sun.

What a view! This is the kind of neighborhood I want to be in.

When I went to get lunch at Blaze Pizza at the outlets, they had blocked off all but one entrance and they had a security guard checking to ensure you were going to pick up food from one of the restaurants only. Later at a Whole Foods, they offered gloves and sanitized all carts/baskets before handing them to us.

Guarding Blaze?

That first week saw massive changes for me. It started with reducing activities and ultimately became minimizing movement to “flatten the curve” as they kept telling us. At first we could eat out with restrictions, but by the end of it we were only picking up food and doing essential grocery shopping. Since then it’s been much of the same for me. More to come on what has been happening since week 1! Stayed tuned.

A story of my tupperware

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“I’m so sorry.”

I was just getting into my car leaving work and I checked my phone to see that text message from Bestie.

“Uh oh,” I thought to myself, “what bad news could it be?” I thought it might have to do with work — perhaps something he couldn’t change that we had hoped for.

Instead I opened up my phone to see he had sent a picture of my tupperware.

“Ok, maybe he broke it while washing the dishes?” I pondered.

empty tupperware on counter

I looked a little closer to find that it seemed fine, and then it hit me: he had eaten all the cookies inside it! LOL I almost died laughing. You see, earlier that day I had brought a batch of cookies to work. I was practicing baking them for a housewarming this weekend. As soon as Bestie confirmed they were vegan, he went to town on them and consumed 5 during a short 2-3 minute conversation. I shouldn’t be surprised, but it still amazes me how quickly he can make food disappear.

Later in the morning, we had a staff meeting where he gently ate one or two more. He went home before me and returned to find the remaining cookies on the counter. Next thing you know, they were gone too and he was texting me to apologize as he collapsed into a food coma.

His version of what happened when he got home is even funnier! First, he had already overeaten when he got back so he really should have resisted. But when he noticed there were more cookies, he went to just snack on one. And then a second one. By then, he was kind of ashamed but was still stuffing his face as he wiped the crumbs from the counter and sent me the picture. I can imagine him looking around to make sure nobody was around as he hid the evidence of his snacking. He then used his shirt as a makeshift basket to shovel the remaining cookies into and stumbled into bed still scarfing them down. So there he lay, eating the rest of the cookies in bed before passing out. Lol, it makes me chuckle every time I think about it.

All in all he consumed over a dozen cookies that day. I bet his belly paid for it!

Dear Blog

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It’s been too long.

I keep telling myself I’ll get back to you and I run through so many drafts in my head, but I never seem to be able to bring myself to pull out the laptop to start typing the thoughts in my head. I’m hoping to finally pull out of this rut and return to you bit by bit.

I figure Leap Day is a fun way to start, no? After all, it’s a day meant to help restore balance by keeping us on track — for a somewhat more accurate measure of rotations around the sun. And so I use that intention and energy to rub off on my habits, to restore some balance to you. At my best I blogged daily and at my worst, I think it was only a handful of times a year. I can ease back into with a few times a month until I can reach a weekly pace.

Brace yourself! It’s time to dust off the covers and oil those rusted gears. I’ve got a fresh new look and you’ll get attention again. 🙂

Another year

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Today I’m 34. It’s weird because it seems old for how I feel. My 30s have been a strange time. It’s sort of like I unwittingly hit a reset button as I approached this decade of life and now I’m getting jockeyed around through various life stages. For now I can only hang on for dear life and try to set myself straight.

In the mean time, I did have a really nice birthday – I always take the day off: I’ve never gone to school or worked on my birthday and I never will. It’s not that I care about my birthday that much, but growing up it always got bundled with the holidays and lost in the shuffle before New Year’s, so I like to carve out a little something to preserve for myself. I’m happy to work through any holiday, but my birthday is the one time I need to be able to completely disconnect guilt-free.

This time around I was up casually playing games past midnight. When I saw it was technically today, I ate a birthday cake flavored macaron as a treat. Zephyr was snuggling with me cute as can be and I felt peaceful as I lay there.

Eventually I went to sleep and slept in until 10. I woke up ever so briefly in the morning when Bestie was heading to work and fed Zeph. I usually can’t sleep in past 7:30 anymore so this was truly a treat. I then lounged around playing my games, looking things up online, and ultimately putting on some TV. My original plan was to go on a hike, get a dessert, and journal, but the day was dreary and Zeph was a snuggle bug so I went with the flow of a lazy day.

Just as I was turning off the TV to go get something to eat, Bestie came back and surprised me with a cupcake and song. It was super sweet of him! I snacked on that and then took a brief bubble bath to pamper myself. By then, Beezmo had arrived and we watched some Avatar Last Air Bender while he worked. I had made reservations for dinner at 6:30 and we hung around until it was time to leave.

We met up with Terminator at the restaurant and I gorged on way too many dishes. It was just the four of us but it was perfect. I’m not into large groups or fanfare, just good times with good friends. I’m really glad they could all make it out. Cupcake was in Thailand and Ceeburticus was in Seattle so they couldn’t make it, but that was quite alright. We’ll do something next year!

While I didn’t do any work, I couldn’t entirely escape talking about work given that I work with both Bestie and Beezmo. We kept it to a minimum and I appreciate their respect for that. I’ll be back on tomorrow but I like the freedom of today, not a worry in the world.

A Year Post-Grad

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A year ago, the Class of 2018 graduated from the Marshall School of Business. It feels like a lifetime ago. Since then…

I learned how to make amazing vegan pancakes.

The Squad (minus one) went to Disneyland to celebrate one of us working for Disney.

The company office moved from Temecula to Mission Viejo.

We moved my Bestie from Rancho Palos Verdes to Costa Mesa. I swear, next time he’s got to hire professionals.

I vacationed in Scandinavia with Panda and visited Ceeburticus in Copenhagen, where we discovered Joe & The Juice.

I attended my classmates’ wedding on a yacht in Marina Del Rey!

We had a housewarming for Cupcake – she finally got to move back in to her house that she’d been renting out.

I started painting my nails again. After accumulating all those Julep polishes, I need to put them to use!

I helped save a hummingbird that Bestie found in the road.

I learned how to throw axes and tried riding a Bird for the first time!

I flew back to VA and moved the fam out to Long Beach.

We sold our condo in VA and closed that chapter in our lives.

I set up my Aquafarm after owning it for a good 5 years and never opening it. I also got some cacti, succulents, air plants, snails, and a betta fish.

Went to Cyclavia through downtown LA with Cupcake and tried out the Boosted Board. We ran into Trini, our other roommate during school!

My grandpa died.

The Squad drove up to SF to visit Ceeburticus at her new place.

The cats got fleas and we had to put them in cones for a few weeks. Smokey had to get her back shaved and it was red all over.

I tried out a VR game. It was terrifying.

With the right side shave growing back, I shaved the left side this time.

We had a Friendsgiving at Cupcake’s place. 🙂

The Squad went out to watch the MDR Boat Parade with some of our classmate friends.

I had geese and koi eat right out of my hand!!

The company had a holiday party where Bestie brought Terminator as his “date” and everyone wondered if they were gay.

I stalked peacocks for my birthday, then got dinner with the Squad. Just the way I like it.

At the beginning of the year, I went to China with my mom to visit our vacation home in Hainan, see my grandma, and attend my grandpa’s 100 day funeral ceremony.

I went with some coworkers to support one of them in his body building competition at Fit Expo.

I started going to trivia nights with Bestie and Terminator. Sometimes coworkers would join and sometimes we met new friends.

The Squad watched Captain Marvel to gear up for Avengers.

Bestie and I discovered an incredible sushi and ramen joint in Long Beach that had literally the best sushi roll I ever ate, which happens to be vegan. Amazing.

We went to Disneyland again (?!) for Ceeburticus’s birthday. This time all 5 of the Squad made it! And I got a cute Star Wars backpack for the design. I’m not a fan of Disney but if it looks good then they did it right.

I joined Equinox and began working out intensely with Bestie. I’m a lot more motivated when I have a companion or a class.

The Squad watched Avengers: End Game. We’ve each seen it at least twice now. I don’t really care for it, but hey I’m down to do whatever we do as a group.

And finally, the Squad went on a vacation to Oahu not long before Bestie’s birthday yesterday. What a way to wrap up our first year since graduating! Here’s to a strong squad that puts in the effort to stay connected. They are a key part of my social life and I’m so happy that we built the relationships that we have.



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