You know when you think it’s just another meet-up with your friend and then BAM you arrive and it’s a surprise party for you? Well if you haven’t experienced this, it’s just about the coolest thing ever. If you have, then you know the utter shock and amazement that washes over you when it dawns on you what is happening. And yes, I am writing about this because it happened to me today (well, I guess technically yesterday now).
February 24th was cut out to be a special day. I thought it was because it was my boyfriend’s birthday. I thought it was because it’s Mardi Gras. But more than that, it turned out to be a special day for me! After spending as much time as I could with Panda this afternoon, I had a few hours to kill before I was scheduled to meet up with my friend “Shadow” for dinner. I decided to head over to the student store after parking my car, which turned out to be a fortunate decision – I ended up running into an old friend and an alum from my co-ed business fraternity, AKPsi. It was great to catch up and I was happy that I didn’t end up bored out of my mind for three hours.
Eventually I headed back to the residential halls to get ready to meet up with Shadow, but since I was early, I decided to drop by and say hi to some old friends. They weren’t in, but luckily, I happened to see them in the window of one of the eateries on campus. As if that wasn’t enough excitement for a day, I also ran into another friend there! We all made some plans to meet up later this week before I fly out on Sunday. Eventually, it came time to head down to the restaurant that Shadow and I were going to eat at.
As she and I walked to the car, I babbled about how I didn’t want to walk down so I’d drive the car and try to get a metered spot in front. Then we could get our food and park somewhere else to eat in the car. She calmly agreed to this silly plan and we drove down, coming across a 30-minute spot that had 30 more minutes until they stopped checking meters. Perfect. I even babbled out loud about how I could keep the spot now, even though we shouldn’t need it since our food shouldn’t take that long. Well, I didn’t realize just how fortunate that was! It freed me up to stay happily put at the restaurant once we did arrive and she hurriedly pushed open the door to reveal three other friends, waiting there for us!
I was completely oblivious this whole time, haha, which worked out just as it needed to. It was so amazing to see those lovely faces that I haven’t gotten to see in months! Gosh, I am still thrilled about it now, hours later and even as exhaustion kicks in. Additionally, Shadow got me this amazing gift baggie with UCLA gear to remind me of my alma mater, some candy for my sweet tooth, and even some gum, since it’s banned in Singapore. I’m not sure I’m allowed to bring it in, but it’s cute.
A few years back, Katana also did something similar for me, arranging a surprise birthday party. Sometimes I can’t believe I actually thought I was going to her house for lunch with her parents! Haha, I can be so gullible when it comes to social gatherings. Instead of a warm family gathering, I walked into their hosue and found a dining room overflowing with gifts and food, and most importantly, good company! What a special day that was.
The point of all this is just to express how grateful I am to have friends like this. Those who take the time and care to arrange these get-togethers and lure me to them. I feel so blessed that they would go to that trouble and I really wish I was better at these things. I am a hugely sentimental person and I appreciate thoughtful gifts so much more than anything of great value. That is why these things speak so much to me – it takes careful thought to plan and execute them! That sort of effort means so much more to me than anything that can be bought.
I want to explore what I am good at and find a creative way to turn that into something that I can do for my friends, in turn. I remember when I used to be the picture-taker, Katana used to be the writer, and Elle used to be the CD-maker in our little trio. We each had our own niche and that is how we shared with each other. I want to do something special akin to the whole party-throwing thing, like make an artful collage or mini photo album or scrapbook. Something that will be signature “me.” At the same time, these little meaningful gatherings are a classic and I’d really like to do them.
