As my departure date approaches, I am frantically taking advantage of the time I have left to visit my friends at and around UCLA. The other night, I met up with a friend for tea and two and a half hours later, I left campus with a nostalgic feeling in my heart. I miss the days of staying up late with my friends, discussing all sorts of ideas and lamenting the work we had to do. One of the things I will miss most about college life is those late night chats in the hallway or lounge.
That is the reason that I stayed in on-campus housing for as long as I could; I loved the atmosphere there that cannot be replicated. When else can you go knock on a random stranger’s door and make a friend without seeming too forward? Where else will you find so many doors kept open and people weaving in and out of the hallway? College residential life is the best buffer for meeting new people who may have nothing in common with you. In every other social situation, you are brought together by some shared interest, but in this one, your choice of living situation hardly dictates the type of people you will be living around.
It was the nicest thing to be back in that environment I adored so much, doing what I do best – livening up the quarters! In fact, as we stood in the hallway chatting, the duty RA came by and told us how he had just been thinking how he hadn’t heard the place so chatty since I was last around when he rounded the corner to find it was actually me there! We caught up briefly and then he left to continue his round, jokingly warning us to keep it down or else he’d have to come write us up (he’s a friend of mine, so it was only half serious). I thought about it and you know what? I’d much rather be the type of person up way too late interacting with my peers and possibly getting written up for it than the type of person always holed up in the my room, hardly ever socializing with fellow students.
College is a time of great growth, academically and socially, and everyone should take advantage of it in all aspects. I will always fondly remember the feeling of sitting around with my friends, exchanging our thoughts throughout the night. And I will miss that, as well as having such a huge concentration of friends in a small area. Life is changing quickly.
