Part of the acclimation here is getting used to the language patterns. The good thing is that people in Singapore primarily speak English and some Chinese, both of which I am fluent in. However, as it is with any country, it takes time to get used to the accent, language patterns, and slang. This takes me back to my first night in my flat in England, gathered around the kitchen table with my neighbors, freaking out to myself because I could not understand a word of what they were saying.
Sometimes, when they are speaking very quickly or not facing me, I find it rather difficult to follow what they are saying. Plus, throw in all the cultural references, inside jokes, and other communication barriers and you’ve got a huge jumble in your mind. It’s taking me some time to sort things out, remembering all the background information for historical and cultural references, what certain phrases mean, and also catching up on what the lingo is like around here.
I grew up learning very standard English and Chinese, so it’s a challenge to understand the accents and local jargon that gets used. Grammatically things are very different too, which poses a mild block in my mind that slows down my processing. Plus, I’m used to being very compartmentalized with my languages, rarely switching between them, but now everyone is transitioning around a lot more than I’m used to. The Chinglish I speak at home hardly uses English phrases and is about 90% Chinese, so I’m thinking and reacting in Chinese for the most part.
I’ve learned a lot since my arrival and I continue to try to keep up with all the background information that I need to try to pick up when trying to adjust to a new culture’s style of communication. The cadence of speech is very different as well and it certainly has been interesting learning to get used to it. It’s not that I haven’t heard this type of speech before, but more of the overwhelmed senses I have, struggling to figure out all of this very new information.
I’ve been exhausted lately, crashing to bed without a second thought and happily sleeping through the night. Gone are my insomniac days, which is good, since I no longer lie in bed thinking about what to do. However, I have already fallen asleep half a dozen times just writing this post. So, for now, I’ll let my subconscious brain process all the information from this week.