We were wandering around the Hilton Waikiki Village and came across this little habitat! I’ve never seen penguins, turtles, and fish all living together. Pretty cool!
Shameless
Animals just do what they do and don’t care if you’re watching or not. Meanwhile, people have the exact opposite problem and get too self-conscious.
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The business of partnerships
I’m a strong proponent of business partnerships – not in the legal sense (LLCs seem much safer), but definitely in the collaboration, motivation, teamwork, and synergy sense. I think it was sometime in college, when I was thinking more seriously about a future as an entrepreneur that I got this idea in my head. Was it from articles I read? Companies I looked into? Other media influences? I can’t remember now. All I know is that I soon formed an opinion that the best way for me to find success in business was by pursuing ventures with a partner. Maybe I’d have a different partner for each project, or one who I could do multiple ones with. Maybe it’d be a man or a woman. That much didn’t matter insomuch as 1) we both worked hard toward a common goal, 2) we had similar values, and 3) we had complementary skills.
Once I got this idea in my head, I kept a watchful eye out. At professional events, at social events, and even during chance encounters. I met a lot of interesting, smart, driven people throughout my years in college, but none meshed with me the way I wanted my business partner to. I was always thinking in the back of my head, “Is this person someone I could build a working partnership with?” Sadly, the answer was always no. Usually it was because we didn’t share the same interests – they didn’t want to go into the same industries I did, or they didn’t have the entrepreneurial drive that I did. Sometimes other factors came into play, like clashes in personality. I thought I might have a chance when I went to work in Singapore, but that fell apart before we ever got going.
After years of dreaming, I decided it was time to address the real life issues I had to face. I got a normal job at an established company and settled into an average workweek. Luckily, the company was small, young, and still had a start-up vibe. I had a lot to learn and got plenty of responsibility. Over the next two years, I learned a lot and experienced a lot of change at the company! Things were pretty stable and I was getting antsy. That entrepreneurial bug came back to bite me and it was an itch that I needed to scratch. I had a business idea that I felt was worth pursuing and finally, finally, I had met a business partner! After six long years of searching, it kind of just fell in my lap and I was not about to let it go. Oh, life. 😛 Well, now that I saw the opportunity, I went for it. I felt confident that within a couple of months (ok, maybe a year), we could make it work.
Ultimately, I don’t know if I would have pursued my own venture if I didn’t have a partner to collaborate with. Even in some of my personal side projects, my mom is my proponent and unofficial business partner. Even if I do the majority of the work, I feel so much more confident when there is someone else there, whether as an equal partner or more of a supporting role. I’ve even gotten so much self-belief that I’m looking into pursuing some of my own little side gigs! As they say, nobody succeeds on their own, and I am so grateful to the support network that I have behind me. While partnerships may not be the optimal approach for everyone, it is for me and I think it’s worth considering no matter who you are.