Getting screwed but coming out on top

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You know, sometimes things don’t go your way, but in the process of fixing it and to make up for it, you end up getting more (or a better deal). Of course, it’s all about perspective whether that’s worth it, but for me I’ve had a couple of those situations lately where I feel pretty good about the whole thing.

First was my fridge, which broke not long after I moved in. One day, I went to get some leftovers to find that they had started to ferment — it was that warm in the fridge! Gross. Strangely enough, it wasn’t that the cooling had stopped entirely; in fact, the bottom part of the fridge was nearly frozen. Thankfully, I had a home warranty so I put in a service order for that and my oven, which had also broken. At first, the technician said he thought it was a fan issue, so he wrote up his report and left saying that they’d be in touch to schedule something once the part was received.

I waited for a long time and approved an email ordering a part, but then didn’t hear anything. When I finally followed up, I learned that for whatever reason, they decided to replace my fridge entirely! Perhaps it wasn’t a fan issue, or the hassle of trying to fix that wasn’t worth it. Whatever the case, I paid just $75 for the visit and got my oven fixed and eventually, a brand new fridge installed. I was pretty happy with that outcome since I didn’t particularly like the fridge that was there.

The old fridge had a very dirty ice dispenser, the doors weren’t magnetic, and they were not aligned. The only thing I don’t like about the new one is the water dispenser area, which 1) isn’t tall enough and 2) the light has to manually be turned on instead of automatically whenever in use.

Second thing was my car, which got scraped when I was parked at the bank. I was almost too lazy to call in a claim, but I figured I might as well see what I could get from it since it was the other party’s insurance anyway. The damage was just surface scratches on my rear bumper, which isn’t super obvious. I was offered $663 that I happily pocketed. I don’t plan on fixing the bumper since I want replace this car as soon as I can anyway.

Barely any scratches, happy to get the money.

Third is my washer dryer set, which I received damaged. There was a small dent on the dryer so I got $150 back, which I was more than happy with. The washer was taken away because it either had not been manufactured properly or it got quite damaged on the way. I called in to get a replacement and was assured that while they wouldn’t have time to reach out to me, but my request would get processed. I waited two months with no response and finally called in only to find they had incorrectly closed my case!

So finally, with a new request processed, they sent me my replacement washer. I’d been living here for over four months with no washer and they only refunded me another $150 for the inconvenience. I wanted way more but I was also too lazy to argue. Overall, still not a bad deal since I don’t need to wash my clothes very often, though it has been a hassle.

Fourth were my sunglasses, which I broke one day when they dropped on my tiled floor. I was hoping I could use some warranty coverage to replace them for a decent price, but the offer that Sunglasses Hut has to replace broken ones within a year of purchase only applies if you are registered with their club. Sadly, I hadn’t set up an account. So I went directly to the Ray Ban website instead and put in a request. They offered to repair them for about $78, which I figured was decent and certainly better than having to buy a new pair. So I paid the fee, mailed in my sunglasses, and waited.

Two months went by without a peep and when I went to check on my request, it had disappeared. I put in a new one to ask about my old one and they finally got back to me on my original request, saying they couldn’t repair it and offered me $300 off an order. I took advantage of that opportunity too get an additional pair of sunglasses and it only cost me another $25. All in all, I ended up getting two brand new pairs of sunglasses for a total cost about $60 less than what it would have cost had I bought them on my own. I basically got the second pair at half off and I’m good with that.

In each of these scenarios, I ended up happy with the result and getting more out of it than I otherwise would have.

Song of Glory (锦绣南歌) review

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After watching Princess Weiyoung, I read that this was a spin-off/sequel to that story, so I decided to watch it next. However, I found there was almost no overlap at all it really was just set in about the same time period and in a competing dynasty. The Chinese titles do have the same first two characters, but that’s about it. The disappointment from that aside, I did enjoy the show itself and felt much happier about the relationship. There were also some great battle scenes.

Major thanks to cyn lynn for the little recaps that helped me remember the plot for my summary.

Total episodes: 53, about 45 min each (watched it on Viki)

Listen to the OST on Spotify (my fav song is Ying 影=shadow)

Title in Chinese is Jin Xiu Nan Ge 锦绣南歌:
Jin Xiu together is meant to mean beautiful/splendid, but separately, Jin = brocade and Xiu = embroider. Nan = south and Ge = song. So beautiful song of the the south?

Source: cyn lynn

Warning: possible spoilers ahead!

I rated this one an 8/10. I liked the cast and costumes, but not the palace sets, which felt dark and unwelcoming.

I really liked Lige as the assassin, she got such cool costumes and moves! Later on when she mellowed out, her character became less compelling.

It was interesting to see how they dealt with a character to who was already married and fell in love. Still, they kept it pretty simple with him never actually loving the other woman. What a drama it would be if he had to contend with feelings for both!

It was refreshing to see the Princess Consort NOT be the jealous other woman. In fact, the relationship between her and Lige was very affectionate.

They had a parental couple actually close and showing affection for each other, which was really nice to see. The Shen family overall had such a strong bond and they were a really functional family, except for that pesky cousin.

This is on 5 of my lists:

  1. Power Couples
  2. Mystery/Crime Solving
  3. Palace Dramas
  4. Other Dynasties
  5. Lookalikes (Qin Hao, Li Qin)

Tropes/themes in this show:

  • jealous female love rival who thinks she deserves the male lead
  • male love rival who fights to win the female lead
  • side character who also falls in love with main lead, but can never be with them and ends up finding their own happiness with someone else
  • main lead who needs to do something completely against their character to accomplish a larger goal; in the mean time they alienate their loved ones and have a falling out
  • main lead who sacrifices him/herself to save the other
  • swap daughters for marriage
  • arranged marriage that turns out to be with the person they fell in love with in a different context
  • main female dresses as a man and another woman falls in love with her

Show Summary:

Assassins are after Prince Peng Cheng (Liu Yikang), 4th brother to the emperor. He has a reputation for being a bad ruler. Shen Lige is part of the group training to kill him at a dance performance. When she’s practicing dancing (at a brothel?), there’s a mysterious man upstairs who is actually the prince, but she doesn’t know.

Later, at the performance, the assassins are unsuccessful and an arrow is blocked by the prince’s younger brother, Prince Jing Ling (Liu Yixuan). The prime minister Lu Yuan leads the effort to capture the assassins. Pretty much all the assassins are killed and they capture Lige’s disciple sister, A’Nu, who commits suicide to avoid capture. Lige has to watch in horror and keep silent where she’s hiding with her senior disciple brother Chen Shaoxun. She only has a bracelet that A’Nu had as a keepsake of her best friend and dear “sister.”

Lige and her senior disciple brother escape. Wearing the bracelet while hiding out, she is found and the bracelet is recognized. It was the only thing A’Nu had as a child to identify her and now someone from her family’s household sees it. Through some assumptions and misunderstandings, she gets recognized as the Shen family’s long lost daughter and she takes on this identity to seek revenge for her assassin sister and brotherhood. She vows to get Lu Yuan.

In the Shen household, there is a younger cousin, Shen Leqing, who has enjoyed years of being the young mistress in the manor. She’s not happy about being displaced now that the “real” daughter is back. She starts to wreak havoc for Lige. There’s also an older brother Shen Zhi and younger brother Shen Feng.

In her hunt, she follows Lu Yuan to the waterfront one night and hides on a boat, where she runs into a man also observing Lu Yuan. She’s so focused on watching her prey that she barely notices the man next to her. Their interaction amuses and intrigues him. He’s also investigating corruption by Lu Yuan. Her attempt to capture/kill Lu Yuan fails and she is saved by Prince Jing Ling.

Prince Peng Cheng becomes engaged to the daughter of Shen family. Marriages were all pretty much arranged blindly, so they never meet or have a clue who the other is. Shen Leqing wanted to be the one to marry him (she’s been obsessed with him since childhood), but with the real daughter back, Lige is the one who will marry the prince. Lige’s assassin instinct leads her to think of it as an opportunity to get close and kill him, which was her original mission.

She runs into the mysterious man on the boat again and they keep getting in and out of trouble together. They start to develop a bond and make appointments to meet on the boat. She cutely calls him “old man” since he’s a bit older than her. Eventually she starts calling him “4th older brother” because he’s the 4th brother in his family. This is an affectionate nickname and sort of establishes an oppa relationship. Since they’re both after Lu Yuan, they start working together. Neither knows the identity of the other yet.

We eventually find out about the alliance between the Grand Consort (I believe she’s Prince Jing Ling’s mother and Prince Peng Cheng’s step-mother) and Lu Yuan. They’re the corrupt forces in the government.

Prince Peng Cheng already has a Princess Consort (Xie Yunzhi), who is a gentle soul but there is no love between them. She is a good artist and often paints in her palace.

Shen Leqing starts working with Lu Yuan and poisons the bracelet that Lige wears. Prince Jing Ling gets the antidote from Lu Yuan only after promising to go to the dark side.

The Shen dad and older brother get framed for Lu Yuan’s crimes and Lige is heartbroken that her new family might be beheaded. They finally get enough proof of Lu Yuan’s corruption to bring him down, but he implicates Prince Jing Ling to drag him down with him, so ultimately they both escape death (their punishments are tied together?).

Drunk one night, Prince Peng Cheng wants to come clean and tell Lige who he is but she stops him. She doesn’t want to know (because she knows she will be married off soon and won’t get to see him again). He has patiently listened to her say all sorts of bad things about him without knowing it was him. He’s not actually corrupt, but has had to lay low to accomplish his goals and some of his actions can be misconstrued.

Lige goes into the palace prior to the wedding and spends some time there, befriending the Princess Consort, her future sister wife. Eventually Lige helps the Princess Consort find fulfillment in teaching children. That’s supposed to be her happy ending since she and Prince Peng Cheng don’t have more than a cordial relationship.

There are a few close calls prior to the wedding where Prince Peng Cheng nearly visits and sees Lige (and consequently she nearly axes him). He has no interest in this random woman he’s marrying (because he doesn’t know who she really is!). However, something always interrupts or takes him away, so they make it to the wedding night never meeting.

Meanwhile, Shen Leqing has weaseled her way into the palace as a maid to wreak more havoc. She just won’t go away!

The night of the wedding, Lige pierces her new husband with a poisoned knife only to look up and realize it was the man she fell in love with. She’s conflicted and shocked. Thus ensues some madness while they try to cover up the assassination attempt and get him much-needed medical attention. Lige gets Prince Peng Cheng to her senior disciple brother, who runs an apothecary in town with a younger disciple brother. The young disciple brother is super cute and great at inventing weaponry.

There have been some mysterious clues about who their master is and why he wants to murder Prince Peng Cheng. He has taken in all sorts of orphan children to train them exclusively for this assassination for years. But Lige trusts that the man she loves isn’t evil even if he’s Prince Peng Cheng. Lige and her senior disciple brother start suspecting their master. They manage to save Prince Peng Cheng but still need the antidote from their master.

Shen Leqing finds the dagger in the bridal chamber and gets Lige in trouble for an assassination attempt. The Shen family gets implicated again, this time the mother is imprisoned too. Lige tries to save them by explaining her real identity, that she’s not actually their daughter, but they have embraced her and recognize her regardless.

Well it turns out through other clues, they find out that Lige is actually the real Shen daughter. A’Nu only had the bracelet for other reasons, but Lige was kidnapped by her father’s subordinate who felt betrayed. That man, Xu Lin, was the evil master behind the assassins. The Shen dad had to keep the city gates closed to Xu Lin’s soldiers to save the city and they all thought Xu Lin died. He barely escaped, kidnapped Lige, then spent years planning revenge.

At the Shen family beheading, Lige suddenly dies of poison and she blames Lu Yuan. The execution is postponed to figure out what happened. The Shen mom has started to go insane. Turns out Lige didn’t actually die, but she’s stuck in a coma/vegetative/weird frozen state. She is taken to her senior disciple brother’s apothecary and hidden there. Prince Peng Cheng does all sorts of cute/sentimental/romantic things to try to stir a reaction from her.

Shen Leqing finds out her cousin didn’t actually die and goes to kill her. Lige snaps out of it in time to fight. They run off and end up (of course) on a cliff. Shen Leqing eventually falls off, supposedly to her death.

Prince Peng Cheng had to go off to war so now the Grand Consort is creating problems at the palace to try to get rid of him. She and Lu Yuan are plotting to get him killed in the war. The Shen dad gets captured as part of the war.

Shen Zhi (Lige’s older brother) and Wang Zijin, his love interest, are both part of the war effort and while stuck protecting a city, Prince Peng Cheng holds a wedding for them.

Prince Peng Cheng and Lige find themselves in a confusing cave system at some point. It’s inhabited by some local tribe and they are hassling a girl. They save Mei Qi, the girl, who develops a crush on Lige dressed as a man. Lige tells Mei Qi her name is Shen Feng (her younger brother’s name). Mei Qi helps them exit the cave system and then they have to evade Lu Yuan’s men.

Lige carefully plots a rescue plan for her dad and is able to bring him out of the camp. Meanwhile, Prince Peng Cheng has faked his death and Lu Yuan happily takes the corpse back to the palace to deliver the news. Prince Jing Ling is devastated, he has always been on his brother’s side even as he had to pretend to betray him.

Prince Peng Cheng eventually returns from war to catch Lu Yuan and the Grand Consort. They sentence Lu Yuan to death and banishes the Grand Consort from the palace to go be a Buddhist (I think).

Throughout the show, Prince Jing Ling would go to a remote place in the forest and randomly encounter a girl who developed a crush on him. She became his confidante and neither knew who the other was. It turns out she is Lu Wan, the younger sister of Lu Yuan, and eventually ends up staying with the Grand Consort in her banishment.

Lige and Prince Peng Cheng finally get a romantic night to consummate their marriage. The boat they met on (which is owned by the Prince, of course), is their happy place where they had many dates and beautiful memories.

Shen Leqing (not surprisingly) hadn’t died and comes back to trick the Shen mom into unknowingly luring the Shen dad and older brother into a trap where they get killed! 🙁 This girl is evil, how could she do that to the people who raised her? Poor Wang Zijin is super faithful and is determined to be a good daughter-in-law to the Shen family. She embraces her widowship in such an honorable way.

Mei Qi makes her way to the capital seeking the person she thought was Shen Feng. She’s disappointed to find it’s actually Lige, but meets the real Shen Feng and they butt heads but you know they’re going to get together.

All sorts of crazy drama is happening with Xue Qiu, Lu Yuan’s loyal servant. He pretends to cooperate, then testifies that Prince Peng Cheng was behind all the problems. He only tells the truth later when threatened with Lu Wan’s life. He is at least super loyal to Lu Yuan and want to protect his master’s sister.

Prince Peng Cheng falls ill — it was the Grand Consort, who only ever pretended remorse. She used Lu Wan to get at the prince. Prince Peng Cheng is drugged when visiting her and she makes it look like he killed her. He was too weak to get away from her. Prince Jing Ling comes in just in time to see his brother hovering over his mother with a knife. The Grand Consort wanted her son to turn against his dear brother. What a cruel woman.

We then learn that there’s a true mastermind behind the assassination attempts of Prince Peng Cheng and it’s Wang Zijin’s dad! He was devastated that his two sons died and blames Prince Peng Cheng. He was the one who plotted the terrible death of the Shen father and son. Zijin is so heartbroken to learn this that she kills herself to pay for her father’s sins. (What happened to him?)

At the end, the emperor gives an edict to Prince Peng Cheng that Lige needs to die after all the problems. He hides the truth from her and kneels for hours trying to get the emperor to see him, all in vain. He’s planning on taking her away to that cottage they escaped to at one point. They have some romantic time together, then Lige finds out about the edict and quietly commits suicide. He finds her on a swing where they had sweet memories.

Years later, Shen Feng and Mei Qi are married and have a kid. Prince Peng Cheng continues to strive for the betterment of the country. Lige’s wish for him was to prioritize the good of the country. There’s a retreat home they had spent time in that he fills with memories of her. He seems to have some delusion of her being around and it’s so bittersweet.

35 years!

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Wow I’m halfway through my 30’s already. Whenever I see 40, it feels distant and old but man I’m closer to that then anything in my 20’s now. I’ve been watching all these Chinese dramas and whenever I see an actor in their early 20’s, they feel like a baby to me.

As always, I took time off for my birthday and spent it relaxing. I had a massage scheduled in the afternoon, which I went to after spending the morning watching one of my dramas. I then spent the next 3 hours putzing around getting food, lol. I got some groceries at Ranch 99 and saw a cake that looked good, so I bought it. Sadly, it was not to taste, so I’ve frozen it to chip at slowly.

I then ordered Blue Bird Sushi — the BEST vegan sushi I’ve ever had. I got two rolls and two bowls of ramen to go, then went to cha for tea to get boba (two drinks as well). Finally, on my way home I went to get two orders of the potato julienne dish that I really love (tu dou si).

I then spent the night pigging out slowly and watching more of my drama. It was the ideal way for me to spend the day and I only wish I could have eaten more, lol. Nowadays my appetite has shrunk and my mind wants more than my body can handle.

Now that my body is slowing down and breaking down, I really need to focus on treating it better. I’ve never had very healthy habits and I tend to be lazy, but I found a really cool app (FitOn) that will hopefully help me be just a little bit more active. I’m looking forward to a year during which we can finally see friends again and travel for leisure without feeling irresponsible. Maybe I’ll finally make it to Catalina after years of talking about it!

In search of a signature gift

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Once upon a time, I used to have a really great signature gift that I could give people for a variety of occasions: birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, thank yous, baby showers… and then they went out of business.

They were Yuzen box, a subscription box that curated high-quality, eco-friendly products. Everything they did was so gorgeous and well-thought out. Each box included a good mix of skincare, beauty, and bath products, along with the occasional snacks. They also had a men’s version ever so briefly, so I could truly gift to anyone on my list.

new yuzen interior box in rectangular shape with white flowers on aqua background
The interior box is a nice cardboard perfect for reusing!

Now that they’re gone, I struggle to think of a gift that I can so easily pull out of my back pocket to send to people. The closest go-to I have might be Bucky Balls, but I’m still looking for something more classy.

The woman I bought my house from shared with me a very unique tea flavor that I’d never seen before. I don’t know if they’re uncommon in stores, but they’re special enough for her to use as her signature gift when she travels. It also helps they’re so light, so it’s any gift to pack. Perhaps I should also select a favorite tea that I can send to people.

Or perhaps I should finally learn some pottery so I can make silly little things to give to people. Maybe a tiny dipping bowl or a jewelry tray or a mini jug for pour sauce or oil? That would be cool, though I’d have to actually find a place to learn and start making that stuff! It would be cooler than random store-bought stuff, right?

Alternatively, I was talking to a coworker about this and she suggested food. I do make a pretty mean vegan chocolate chip cookie, but man am I lazy. If I had to do that all the time I wouldn’t be motivated. I can only bring myself to do that like twice a year.

Alas, for now I will continue to ponder this issue and keep my eye out for something interesting that catches my eye. I might peruse the online fair trade markets I’ve gotten some fun items from, like GlobeIn or The Little Market. But I certainly won’t compromise until I find something that really hits the mark for me.

Happy National Cat Day!

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I’ve been on an extended hiatus and what better day to come back than on a day to celebrate my favorite animals? I’ve been on a crazy binge-watching spree of Chinese dramas so I hardly want to spend my time doing much else, but for my feline friends it’s worth it.

Plus, I’m a little inspired because I watched alllllllllllllll these shows and I want to write down my thoughts on them before my opinions all fade away after a few months. In a short (less than) 2 months, I’ve managed to blast my way through 9 — count’em — 9?!! series. Other than the first one being a short 6-episode one, the rest have all been about 50-60 episodes each. As I’ve learned, these seem to be the standard for Chinese shows; they’re billed as 1 season, but really they could have been 3.

We’ll table that for now though, I’ll start drafting up posts about the shows I’ve watched and hopefully don’t lose the motivation and momentum I have to get them actually posted. 😛

Today I just wanted to pop back in after soooooooooo long away and share some pics of my favorite kitties. There are currently 3 in my life: Smokey who lives with me, Missy who lives with my parents, and Zephyr who lives with my bestie.

Smokey loves my Moon Pod.
She also loves crinkly things.
Missy has these big eyes and a gaze that is half timid, half curious.
Before my mom took her, she also loved the Moon Pod.
Zephyr is so flat when she falls asleep, and her toes are always curled lol.
She’s a snuggle monster.

Dear Blog

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It’s been too long.

I keep telling myself I’ll get back to you and I run through so many drafts in my head, but I never seem to be able to bring myself to pull out the laptop to start typing the thoughts in my head. I’m hoping to finally pull out of this rut and return to you bit by bit.

I figure Leap Day is a fun way to start, no? After all, it’s a day meant to help restore balance by keeping us on track — for a somewhat more accurate measure of rotations around the sun. And so I use that intention and energy to rub off on my habits, to restore some balance to you. At my best I blogged daily and at my worst, I think it was only a handful of times a year. I can ease back into with a few times a month until I can reach a weekly pace.

Brace yourself! It’s time to dust off the covers and oil those rusted gears. I’ve got a fresh new look and you’ll get attention again. 🙂

Another year

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Today I’m 34. It’s weird because it seems old for how I feel. My 30s have been a strange time. It’s sort of like I unwittingly hit a reset button as I approached this decade of life and now I’m getting jockeyed around through various life stages. For now I can only hang on for dear life and try to set myself straight.

In the mean time, I did have a really nice birthday – I always take the day off: I’ve never gone to school or worked on my birthday and I never will. It’s not that I care about my birthday that much, but growing up it always got bundled with the holidays and lost in the shuffle before New Year’s, so I like to carve out a little something to preserve for myself. I’m happy to work through any holiday, but my birthday is the one time I need to be able to completely disconnect guilt-free.

This time around I was up casually playing games past midnight. When I saw it was technically today, I ate a birthday cake flavored macaron as a treat. Zephyr was snuggling with me cute as can be and I felt peaceful as I lay there.

Eventually I went to sleep and slept in until 10. I woke up ever so briefly in the morning when Bestie was heading to work and fed Zeph. I usually can’t sleep in past 7:30 anymore so this was truly a treat. I then lounged around playing my games, looking things up online, and ultimately putting on some TV. My original plan was to go on a hike, get a dessert, and journal, but the day was dreary and Zeph was a snuggle bug so I went with the flow of a lazy day.

Just as I was turning off the TV to go get something to eat, Bestie came back and surprised me with a cupcake and song. It was super sweet of him! I snacked on that and then took a brief bubble bath to pamper myself. By then, Beezmo had arrived and we watched some Avatar Last Air Bender while he worked. I had made reservations for dinner at 6:30 and we hung around until it was time to leave.

We met up with Terminator at the restaurant and I gorged on way too many dishes. It was just the four of us but it was perfect. I’m not into large groups or fanfare, just good times with good friends. I’m really glad they could all make it out. Cupcake was in Thailand and Ceeburticus was in Seattle so they couldn’t make it, but that was quite alright. We’ll do something next year!

While I didn’t do any work, I couldn’t entirely escape talking about work given that I work with both Bestie and Beezmo. We kept it to a minimum and I appreciate their respect for that. I’ll be back on tomorrow but I like the freedom of today, not a worry in the world.

A Year Post-Grad

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A year ago, the Class of 2018 graduated from the Marshall School of Business. It feels like a lifetime ago. Since then…

I learned how to make amazing vegan pancakes.

The Squad (minus one) went to Disneyland to celebrate one of us working for Disney.

The company office moved from Temecula to Mission Viejo.

We moved my Bestie from Rancho Palos Verdes to Costa Mesa. I swear, next time he’s got to hire professionals.

I vacationed in Scandinavia with Panda and visited Ceeburticus in Copenhagen, where we discovered Joe & The Juice.

I attended my classmates’ wedding on a yacht in Marina Del Rey!

We had a housewarming for Cupcake – she finally got to move back in to her house that she’d been renting out.

I started painting my nails again. After accumulating all those Julep polishes, I need to put them to use!

I helped save a hummingbird that Bestie found in the road.

I learned how to throw axes and tried riding a Bird for the first time!

I flew back to VA and moved the fam out to Long Beach.

We sold our condo in VA and closed that chapter in our lives.

I set up my Aquafarm after owning it for a good 5 years and never opening it. I also got some cacti, succulents, air plants, snails, and a betta fish.

Went to Cyclavia through downtown LA with Cupcake and tried out the Boosted Board. We ran into Trini, our other roommate during school!

My grandpa died.

The Squad drove up to SF to visit Ceeburticus at her new place.

The cats got fleas and we had to put them in cones for a few weeks. Smokey had to get her back shaved and it was red all over.

I tried out a VR game. It was terrifying.

With the right side shave growing back, I shaved the left side this time.

We had a Friendsgiving at Cupcake’s place. 🙂

The Squad went out to watch the MDR Boat Parade with some of our classmate friends.

I had geese and koi eat right out of my hand!!

The company had a holiday party where Bestie brought Terminator as his “date” and everyone wondered if they were gay.

I stalked peacocks for my birthday, then got dinner with the Squad. Just the way I like it.

At the beginning of the year, I went to China with my mom to visit our vacation home in Hainan, see my grandma, and attend my grandpa’s 100 day funeral ceremony.

I went with some coworkers to support one of them in his body building competition at Fit Expo.

I started going to trivia nights with Bestie and Terminator. Sometimes coworkers would join and sometimes we met new friends.

The Squad watched Captain Marvel to gear up for Avengers.

Bestie and I discovered an incredible sushi and ramen joint in Long Beach that had literally the best sushi roll I ever ate, which happens to be vegan. Amazing.

We went to Disneyland again (?!) for Ceeburticus’s birthday. This time all 5 of the Squad made it! And I got a cute Star Wars backpack for the design. I’m not a fan of Disney but if it looks good then they did it right.

I joined Equinox and began working out intensely with Bestie. I’m a lot more motivated when I have a companion or a class.

The Squad watched Avengers: End Game. We’ve each seen it at least twice now. I don’t really care for it, but hey I’m down to do whatever we do as a group.

And finally, the Squad went on a vacation to Oahu not long before Bestie’s birthday yesterday. What a way to wrap up our first year since graduating! Here’s to a strong squad that puts in the effort to stay connected. They are a key part of my social life and I’m so happy that we built the relationships that we have.

East Asian language similarities

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It’s spring break and after a tough week I just wanted to vegetate last night while cat sitting. I decided to pull up a movie and at first I tried to find Hero (??) on a streaming service for free, but discovered it was only for rent. I think is one of the best I’ve ever seen, with its gorgeous use of colors in storytelling. I was reminded of it because I started watching Avatar the Last Airbender and they take a similar approach for their use of elements.

My next choice was Mao’s Last Dancer, which I’d seen over winter break and loved for the cultural components that I could relate to. Again, I couldn’t find it on the services for free, so then I decided to browse available international titles. I don’t know why, but I was in a foreign film kind of mood. While I meant to find something in Chinese, I eventually came across The Beauty Inside and thought it had an intriguing plot.

How strange it turned out to be to listen to Korean, read English, yet hear some familiar phrases that sounded like Chinese. I’ve never really known much about Korean, so I was surprised at the multiple times I knew some of the words even as I was reading the translated subtitles. I can’t remember all the ones I encountered but I know that 15 was one of the examples.

In contrast to that, I have some experience with Japanese where I can read some of their characters and understand the general meaning, but their words sound nothing like Chinese. What a juxtaposition, to have one language that has similar pronunciation yet completely foreign characters while the other has similar use of characters yet completely foreign pronunciation.

I wonder then what, if any overlap occurs between Korean and Japanese?

Back to blogging

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I’m getting worse with this blogging thing. How did the entire month of November go by without a single post?! Somehow since midterm season, I’ve managed to not post at all. Well, now I’m done with finals and on a vacation so I should have more time over break!

There’s only one more semester left in my MBA and before I know it I’ll be back to the working world, no longer insulated from the realities of life. I’ve existed in this delightful bubble happily and I’m not looking forward to the uncertainties of leaving, but I’m making the most of my time left. It’s bittersweet in so many ways.

For now I’m just gonna enjoy my winter break and the rest of 2017. Here’s to more blogging in 2018! 🙂



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