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The emotion of driving

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Lately I’ve really noticed how much feeling and emotion is tied to driving.  I’ve been going around town in a 1999 Camry speckled with water spots and covered in dust and it has made me self-conscious in a way I’m usually not.  I’m afraid of other drivers looking over and noticing how dirty the windows are and judging me for it.  There’s something about a dirty car that makes me feel bad about myself, probably because it’s obvious that I haven’t taken care of the vehicle lately.

You see, the car has been sitting on our driveway in the sun, next to the sprinklers, and under a tree for ages.  In that time, it has suffered stains from getting sprayed every day by the sprinklers, getting beat down on by the sun, and getting particles falling from the tree.  The tree’s branches were so overgrown that they were scraping against the car.  Not exactly the best conditions for storing a vehicle!  I kept telling myself that I would wash the car one day when it wasn’t too hot out, but I kept putting it off.

Now that I was driving the car, I wondered what people thought of my old, beat up car as they drove by in their shiny sports cars and SUVs.  Were they wondering why this car was so filthy?  Were they trying to get a glimpse at me to see what kind of person would drive this car?  Who knows if they even cared, but I felt like they noticed.  After I got the car washed a few days ago, I immediately felt better about driving it around.  Now it was just an older model car – not some dirty or run down piece of junk.

This whole experience was in total contrast to the feeling I got driving my family’s Lexus.  Not only does it drive better, but it’s not subjected to various weather conditions.  When I drove long distances, I would take that car, and it would always boost my morale.  I felt better because it was clean, because it is a good brand, and because it handles really well.  Sitting in it is more comfortable both physically and emotionally.  While I had felt a difference driving this car vs. the Camry in previous years, it was never so apparent as when the Camry was also much more dirty.

It’s funny how we let something like this affect our internal well-being so much.  But I guess it’s just how our culture runs – when we have nice things, we feel better (to a certain extent).  Not just because other people see that we have these nice things, but also because they are designed to make us feel good.  Makeup can make people feel more beautiful, titles can make people feel more powerful, and cars can make people feel more in control or affluent.  Americans in particular seem to love to express themselves via their cars, so there’s an even higher value for them in this culture.  I never really realized I was so affected by these things too.

East coast driving, oh my

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Philosopher and I have been on quite the whirlwind road trip!  From D.C. to NYC to Boston and everything in between, we’ve seen quite a bit of the east coast.  Along the way, this is what we learned:

  1. Toll roads – there a LOT of these!  Trying to avoid them means some extra driving and countless small roads, but after getting hit with $3, $4, $6, $8.80, $0.90, and $12 from Maryland to New Jersey, we were pretty scarred for life.  On our way back, we detoured through Pennsylvania to make sure we minimized any tolls and it turned out great!  It only cost us $1 as we entered PA.
  2. Left exits – there are also a ton of these, for whatever reason.  It definitely threw me off a few times as I merged right to prepare to exit only to find my exit was on the left.  Thankfully traffic generally allowed for these mistakes and it was easy enough to get back into the left lane.  I’m guessing there are more of these because the terrain is harder to work around.
  3. Honkers – plenty of this going on.  Is it just us or are east coasters (particularly New Englanders) more impatient and horn-happy than most?  We kind of expected it from New Yorkers, but Bostonians too?  I don’t recall hearing so much honking when I used to go into these cities.
  4. Speed crazy drivers – I thought LA drivers drove fast, but then I watched as cars zoomed by me going 75 in a 55 zone, and nearly 90 in a 65 zone.  It seems that less people get caught so they are far more brazen.
  5. Full service gas stations – I went to my first one of these ever, only because we had been looking for a gas station for ages and this was the only one that came up.  It was weird to sit in the car and talk to some high school kid to let him know how much gas and what kind we wanted.  As I later found out, this is the law in NJ – what a weird state.
  6. We hate NJ.  On our way to New York, we made the mistake of taking the New Jersey turnpike.  Not only was it the most boring stretch of road ever, there were only like two exits within the first 30-40 miles!  Not being able to exit if I wanted made me feel strangely claustrophobic.  There was no escape!!!!  And when we finally did exit they pounded us with a toll charge.  Great.

This was the first time I’d driven long distances on the east coast, since I moved right after learning how to drive 10 years ago.  A decade later, I found I was basically a complete stranger to the way of the roads around here.  It was madness, but definitely a rich learning lesson (actually lesson upon lesson upon lesson) and we came out with a lot of stories/anecdotes to share and reminisce on.  Oh, and I was also constantly reminded of how spoiled I had gotten with automatic doors and windows.  I kept forgetting my key didn’t have a button to lock the doors of the rental car we had, so I’d close the door only to have to open it again to manually lock it.  And I kept trying to roll the window the wrong way.  What a trip!

Alert driving

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Tonight a car started to merge into me, which made me grateful that I was an alert driver, noticed the drifting, and promptly moved and braked to avoid a collision. I would have honked too, to warn the guy, but I was just about to take a sip from my tea so my hands were too occupied. I wonder if he ever had a clue how close we were to scraping against each other.

It used to be common for me to be tired on my drives home and if this had happened last year when I was commuting, it may not have panned out the same way. Thankfully, I have a secret weapon under my belt that has been helping me stay alert during my drives. It has been very effective and I can’t wait to unveil it someday! For now Maven and I are working on launching it so I’ll keep it under wraps. One day though, you’ll hear about it!

Little house on the tow truck

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Forget Little House on the Prairie! In this modern age it’s Little House on the Tow Truck.

very small house on flatbed tow truck

I can't tell if it's a toy house or a real mini house.

Blued

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Is it just me or are there more blue cars on the road?  In the past week or two while commuting to and from work, I’ve seen so many more blue cars than I’ve ever seen in my life.  In fact, I think at any given point there would be a blue car within my view, which is pretty unusual.  Typically it’s just a sea of silver, white, and black.  Where did all that blueness come from?

Then there’s the naming craze, what with Beyoncé naming her kid Blue and I’m sure many more parents to follow.  Even our CEO’s daughter has a middle name that is similar – Bleu.  At least they named their child before someone famous made it popular!  There’s also the issue of Katy Perry’s hair, which she dyed blue not too long ago.  It might just be one huge coincidence, but suddenly the color blue has been making a strong appearance across such different things that I couldn’t help but notice.  I always knew blue was a color that just about everyone likes, but this is definitely taking it to another level.

Let me ponder this as I hunt down some blueberries to enjoy… 😉

Late night detour

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It was late at night and I thought I’d be free and clear to drive down the 405, but of course they were doing construction and we got routed off the freeway onto Sepulveda.  I was pretty tired and the little caravan of cars all following the detour was amusing to me at that point.

LAX backup

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Traffic was at a virtual stop when the rain came! They had shut down the Sepulveda tunnel due to flooding, which made what should have been a 10-minute drive back took over an hour extra. Yikes.

Jewish vehicle

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a spirited display of hanukkah candles atop a car on the freeway

They were certainly getting into the spirit!

False alarm

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dark smoke stack emerging from flame in the distance, from a plant burning things

It looked so scary, but it was just a plant burning off some of its stuff. Not very eco-friendly, are they?

Racing planes

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Our shuttle to the satellite terminals at LAX had a little head-to-head with the planes on the runway. 😉

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