Life as a game
Go check out this TED video and if you’re not interested in the beginning bit, skip over to about 20 minutes in. I find it fascinating, the way he’s describing how our lives are going to resemble a game more and more. And it’s true! I mean, it’s already so prevalent – think of all the things you’re signed up for to earn points. Credit cards, store member cards, search engines, and really just about any service these days are using points to entice you to use them more. I mean, I search with Swagbucks.com because I want to earn Swagbucks. I use only one credit card (my Chase Sapphire) because I like racking up points on it. My mom obsesses over getting frequent flyer miles every time we travel. I never forget to enter my Ralph’s customer card number when I buy food there (not only to get the discounts, but also to collect the rewards).
I think it’s pretty brilliant. When you make life into one massive game full of a series of mini-games, people have greater motivation to get things done. Even better is when things are transparent and these accounts are linked to your social media account, so your friends can see how you’re doing. People like to win, so seeing someone else did better than them encourages them to spend more time and effort to get a higher score. Then with sensors, just about everything you do can be tracked and have consequences. If you don’t have healthy habits, your insurance premium will go up – there’s a strong motivator to just fit in that quick half hour each day!
I think it comes down to accountability. When people are easily able to hide what they do (or don’t do) and lie to themselves about how well they’re taking care of themselves, they’re more likely to continue with those bad habits. But the moment everyone knows if you’ve flossed today, or had too much to drink, or didn’t get enough sleep, you want to do what you can to improve yourself. Plus, having some friendly competition to egg you along doesn’t hurt. If you see on your friend’s profile that they worked out every day for the past month and you haven’t done squat, it makes you reconsider, doesn’t it?
In a way, it’s bad though – if companies and the government can track you so closely, they’re going to make assumptions about you that may not be true. Just because you don’t eat healthy doesn’t mean you can’t appear perfectly healthy in a physical and feel great. There have got to be certain controls put into place protecting people’s privacy so insurance companies can’t rip people off because they don’t have the healthiest habits. After all, the whole point is to protect against the unknown. Trying to make too many predeterminations can lead dangerously close to a sort of eugenics and determinism. But overall, I think turning our lives into games would lead to better results. Let’s see how long it takes to happen!
Living shells
At first glance, this random pile of shells look kind of cool. Then when they move, it’s even cooler. 😛 Ever want a pet hermit crab? Why not try 20!
hermit crabs from Mary Qin on Vimeo.
My millisecond of fame
Ok, not even, but I get one sound byte in this episode of MTV’s Hired. I got a sneak peek of the episode at Energy Muse’s 10 Year Celebration in a bar in Manhattan Beach. Hence the MTV logo on the cake. It was a yummy cake too! I love the ones with a fresh strawberry layer in the middle.

Workaholic?
I enjoy working. The month started off slowly for me, with my workload dwindling, and after a week and a half, I had just about taken care of all my emails from the past month, followed up on as many things as I could, and caught up on some random tasks. I had my reports done, emails answered, and time left over to get distracted. It felt weird. I didn’t know what to do with myself. I’ve never considered myself a workaholic, but when I’m working, I like having plenty to do, always more than can be finished that day. I don’t like finishing everything and twiddling my thumbs. So by the end of two weeks, I mentioned to a coworker that I had some free time on my hands and could help if he had something for me to do.
I can really get into the zone when I’m hard at work, zoning out people passing by and other distractions. At times, it’s hard to tear myself away for lunch, but once I do manage to (if I do…), I can let go and enjoy my meal. And when things are slowing towards the end of the day, I can tie off loose ends and save some of the work for the next morning. I don’t generally need to stay late and have rarely stayed beyond half an hour more than usual. I can leave work at work, but gosh, when I’m there, I do like to actually work. Maybe because being productive makes my time feel worthwhile. Maybe because it makes the time fly by. Or maybe just because I really do enjoy the work I do! It’s a great feeling and I’m really glad I came across a job that is such a steal. I don’t mind getting buried work during the day.
It’s wonderful to have a job like this, that I can work hard at and feel good about, with no complaints. I really can’t think of anything I dislike about the job. I remember anticipating full-time work and the horrors of getting up every day at the same time, not getting a summer break or the various other vacation times, and a whole slew of other things that people hate about the daily grind. But I’ve got a great deal – I don’t need to get up earlier than 8:30, I don’t have to shove down lunch in half an hour (unless I want to), and I have fun coworkers and supervisors. It’s no wonder I like to go in to work (though I admit I still have trouble waking up in the morning) and be a good, productive employee.
So yay for the new opportunities that are filling up my schedule once again. A slow day or even a slow week may be nice once in awhile, but I’d rather be busy getting things done. I don’t think I’m a workaholic in the strictest sense, but in many ways – healthy ways – I can be.
Pecking peacock
UIRP
In Los Angeles, you know they’re filming something nearby when you see signs like this. The distinctive yellow with black lettering, and a word or phrase that doesn’t mean much. I was once told that the Mission Impossible 3 signs said “Heyday” so people wouldn’t really know what was going on. We had them for Wristcutters!
Alone
I spend much of my time alone with my thoughts, and to fill the air with something other than those thoughts floating around, I like to watch videos online (either TED.com ones or some TV show that isn’t airing) or play games. But sometimes, the quiet of the night catches up with me and I begin to anticipate the day when Panda has to go to the east coast for work and I really will be alone. Then I will no longer have someone to look forward to seeing at night or on the weekends. It’ll just be me and whatever apartment I eventually end up living in. Maybe I’ll start Facebooking again, or maybe I’ll spend more time on this blog. Maybe I’ll even get around to reading more books.
By the time I get home from work, it’ll almost be time for him to hit the sack, so most of my nights will be void of his presence. I suppose I could try sleeping earlier and working out to kill some of the time, but the rest of it… well, I wonder what I’ll do with myself. The good thing, at least, is that I know that the anticipation of it is far worse than actually doing it. After all, we’ve been through this before – and back then, we were still so fresh in our relationship. Now we’ve solidified some things and really made room in our lives for each other. And at least this time around the place he’s going isn’t as inaccessible as Singapore was. There is no $1000+ plane ticket standing between us. Just one for a couple hundred bucks, maybe even only in the double digits if we get a good deal.
It just sucks sometimes, having that sort of a void at night, when he’s busy doing something and I’m sitting there, bored of all the games I’ve been able to find and tired of watching video after video. Then what do I do? There is no Panda to share my day with and talk about random things with. I hope I find a place with a gym, so I can fill my time with getting in shape. I guess I’ll also start to figure out where the local library is. Then again, I do have some books at home that I’ve been meaning to tackle for awhile now. I hate when I get to thinking of what I’ll do when the time comes though. That’s the hardest part.
Great white shark… psych!
At Underwater World on Sentosa Island, we were told there was a great white shark there. I suppose it was true, but what a joke…
great white image from Mary Qin on Vimeo.






