I’ve been so distracted at home that I don’t even get online at night! I mean with cuties like my cats, why would I need to? Also, my bruising is really coming out. The soreness is fading a bit…
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Silly superstitions
It didn’t even occur to me it was Friday the 13th until a guy at work said it today. The number thirteen has actually been my favorite number since fifth grade, when we had numbered cubbyholes and I was #13. My second favorite number is 19 because that was the box that the guy I liked had! Haha, funny how some things really last in your life.
Well, since it was a day of superstition for much of this country, I thought I’d share a video of one of my cats. When I was choosing them this summer, I specifically went for the dark ones because they don’t seem to get adopted as much. I now have a gray and a black cat, both with some white accents. I don’t know why cats get a bad rap, especially black ones, but at least they are lucky and respected in some cultures. In this video, Missy (the gray one) was really enjoying the tag on my new Victoria’s Secret shirt. She’s a curious and playful one!
Cat and mouse
Missy is a playful cat who just wanted to chase around the mouse. Of course the mouse wasn’t aware of this, so it was frozen until it saw an opportunity to run. I was able to help get it outside, but Missy still wanted to have some fun.
Leisurely pace
When I come home on the weekends, I don’t want to do much more than eat, sleep, and sit around online or playing with the cats. I always been a bit of a homebody, preferring to stay at home and read or write in my journal in my early years, and hang out online in more recent years. I find it very rewarding to just let the days drift by, not worrying about things and relaxing with Missy sleeping next to me. I also love lounging around outside, basking in the sun and admiring the nature around me. Who needs the high-stress environment of a metropolitan area? I certainly don’t, and I’m pretty sure that’s why NYC doesn’t appeal to me at all (unless I’m just visiting). Living in LA has been nice though, since it’s so spread out and there are so many neighborhoods that it doesn’t feel like a city in most parts.
I find it so relaxing and fulfilling to rest with a purring kitty, let the sun warm my body, and be able to have some peace and quiet. My apartment complex has too much noise during the day, which is why I especially like coming home. When there are too many sounds, lights, and smells around you, it can be distracting. Coming home to breathe fresher air and hear to little to no noise is a nice break from the hubbub in other parts of LA. I guess that’s why I have been itching to spend more time back east somewhere – there are so many great regions with plenty of seclusion and easy access to nature. I’d like to spend more time enjoying some of the simple pleasures – sipping a cool drink on a hot day, watching the fireflies at night, sitting on the porch with a gentle breeze blowing… even have some hot chocolate on a cold, stormy day.
I get a little piece of that whenever I come home and it’s nice to sit back with no responsibilities, no worries for a brief time every week.
Massaging Missy
My kitty Missy loves to give massages! Turn up the volume and you can hear her purring.
Cat adoption, dating style
One more day stands in the way between me and the long-awaited cat adoption! I can’t wait. I’ve tried not to overthink things this week, since many of the cats I saw last weekend looked like they were on the fast train to adoption. The kittens in particular were very popular, of course, but I was happy to see that some of the more grown cats were getting a good amount of attention too. I’m totally ready to spend all morning Saturday petting all the cats and also pairing them up to make sure they can get along with each other.
At first when my mom talked about getting an older one and younger one, I was thinking a baby and an older cat, but my mom is skeptical of the little ones since they are so small they could easily get hurt or lost under/in something. While I really like them, I do know that they get adopted very easily, and part of the point of our adoption is to take ones that might get put down if not adopted soon enough. I figure I can always go for a young little one when Panda and I start our own household, so I definitely want to pay more attention to the 1- and 2-year-olds.
I have a feeling both cats will probably be black or at least part black, since it seems those are the ones that aren’t as popular. Is it a superstitious thing? Are Americans really that prejudiced against black cats? Or maybe there is some sort of personality trait that tends to do with those types of cats that makes them less friendly? I did notice that my red tabby (orange stripey cat) was the friendliest of the ones we’ve had, and the black ones were more aloof and/or quirky. But hey, quirky is still loveable! And there were definitely plenty of cats who liked being pet, which is what I love to do.
Haha, I’ve been watching Millionaire Matchmaker and I just realized that the way I’m thinking about cats is very logical, with plenty of reasoning weighing into my decision, which is kind of like what the matchmaker does for her clients. They come in with grandiose ideas of what type of person they can land, and she gives them a dollop of reality to whip them into shape and make them realize what is realistic and what is not. I am open to giving up the kitten idea because it makes more sense of someone living my lifestyle and at my stage of life to focus on the more grown cats. I don’t have time to baby a little creature, but I will have that opportunity in the future!
Rather than go for the “hottie pa-tottie” as they call them (aka the kittens), I will focus more towards the good fit. I need cats that can take care of themselves, but enjoy my company when I am able to see them. I just hope I don’t fall in love with a teeny little thing that looks at me adorably and fits into my hands so comfortably! But hey, even if that happens, the good thing is we’ll still get a mature cat who can help with the duty of teaching the young one.
A feline future
I’m so excited! My mom just told me this weekend that we can officially get a cat again! And not only that, we can get two! It’s something I only dared dream about lately, and I have certainly been pining for some feline friendship. It’s been a couple of years and I think I’m starting to feel a lack of companionship now that I am living on my own, no longer surrounded by college buddies and textbooks keeping me busy all the time. While I really enjoy being able to put work away once I leave and spend the night unwinding, it would be so much nicer if I had a pet, even if only on the weekends, to spend time playing with.
Awhile back, we had discussed how we could make raising a cat work, between the traveling my parents do and the uncertainty of where I will end up in the coming years. I reasoned that my job and life now is pretty stable, and my mom is around enough that we could pull it off. My apartment allows pets, so bringing a cat wouldn’t be a problem and my apartmentmate doesn’t mind since I’d keep the litter box in my own bathroom. With those ducks in order, it really just came down to my mom getting final approval from my dad.
My mom volunteers at a shelter when she has time, and there are often older cats that people don’t want to adopt. We’d be more than happy to take one of them home and away from the threat of being put down. My dad, on the other hand, wants a kitten or younger cat, so my parents actually decided to get one of each! I’m totally thrilled and I can’t wait to go to the shelter with my mom to find our future pets. It has been awhile since our last cat died and I have been telling Panda how important it is for me to have at least one cat in the future. I’m so glad I won’t have to wait as long as I feared I might.