Posts Tagged ‘observation’

Eye contact

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Ever since I was young, I’ve had trouble with eye contact.  Whenever I look into people’s eyes, I find that I can’t hold the gaze for long, and I either start to look at random things that surround us or other parts of their face.  It all stems from extreme shyness in my childhood, when I was too scared to look at people, so I stared at their noses or eyebrows instead.  Even nowadays, I find it hard to hold someone’s gaze, perhaps because I find it to be so intimate.  Eyes have always been my favorite body part.  Looking straight into them distracts me from the conversation at hand.  I get lost and my mind spins.  Eyes are far too intense.  I’m still working on it, but  I think this is such a deep-seeded childhood habit that I don’t know if I will ever overcome it completely.

Anyone else have this problem?

Overcast skies

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When the rains come to LA, it sure does dampen the place.  Check out the dense fog that covered us for a week!

heavy fog from the rain covers hillside

Visibility sucks and drivers get even worse than they already were.

fog covering hills

I don't even know how much more of that hill there might be.

heavy fog hides what is behind the hills

The world beyond is veiled...

Oh, dreary days!

The marathon obsession

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Besides travel the world and skydiving, I’d say that running a marathon tops everyone’s “to do” list (or for the more ambitious, perhaps a triathlon).  Why?  What’s the draw?  I don’t quite understand it, because to me, marathons hold no interest.  Then again, I’m not as into endurance sports as most people seem to be; rather, I prefer sprinting and strength exercises.  Plus, I much prefer being in water than jolting my knees on land.

It seems that marathons have become a rite of passage.  Much like the Greek system has a pledging process, during which pledges undergo certain challenges to prove they deserve to become a brother or sister in the organization, marathons (and training for them) seem to be a process people go through to be inducted to an unofficial club of sorts.  Ultimately it’s more about bragging rights and being able to say that you’ve run a marathon than just being healthy or running for enjoyment.  In fact, most people who run marathons find it excruciatingly painful and just barely finish their first few.  But it’s one of those things that’s hard enough that people respect you for doing it, yet easy enough that just about anyone can do it, so long as they set their minds to it.

Running comes pretty easily to just about everyone who isn’t confined to a wheelchair.  It’s a natural thing humans do, and though techniques vary, the skill isn’t really hard to pick up.  Other things like swimming are harder for people to pick up, which is why I think triathlons are things that only more elite athletes go for.  The average Joe finds learning to swim and bike, then having to compete in those on top of running just a bit too hard.  That’s my theory on why marathons make the list while triathlons get far less attention.  Marathons are a good middle ground between not doing anything physically challenging and going for a triathlon.

I’ve never gotten into them and may never attempt a marathon.  That accomplishment just doesn’t mean as much to me.  I’d rather be able to hold static exercises for longer, be able to pump more weights, or do endurance stuff submerged in water.  I’ve never been a great fan of cardio exercises.  I like strength and agility more.  So though I’d love to go ocean swimming, I don’t feel the need to prove myself by swimming the English Channel.  I guess that’s why I loved swimming the butterfly stroke and doing long and triple jump.  There’s a lot more skill involved in addition to the strength and power you need to do those events.  I’d also love to become a better shot with a pistol, revolver, rifle, and maybe even a bow and arrow.  Oh, and traveling the world and skydiving are definitely on my “to do” list.  But marathons?  They just aren’t my thing.

Drive-by distractions

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Oh the funny things you find while driving…

fire hydrant raised to twice its normal height

Whatever was that for?

truck with message on back warning of inedible contents

Good to know, in case I wanted to break in and have some of that...

bright lime green jeep

Such a bright green color!

Hot tubbing

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My mom adores the hot tub at our local pool and likes to go whenever she gets a chance.  Since I have a bad back, I’ve been trying to go more often to help soothe those muscles.  I’ve found that it actually turns out to be a good place for conversations, as the heated water swirls around you.  In fact, my mom and I have discussed many an important thing while soaking there, from my thoughts of moving out of the house to our viewpoints on life issues.  Surprisingly, we’ve had great exchanges and I’ve revealed more of myself than I ever have before.  I guess relaxation of the body brings about relaxation of the mind, so my thoughts come out more readily.

There’s something about water that is really soothing, and great for thoughts and inspiration.  The potential reasons are many, but the result is undeniable – people tend to relax more and think better when surrounded by water.  For me, it’s the sort of peace and tranquility I get from it.  It’s nice to just close my eyes, sink back, and let the water support me.  Maybe it’s because my thoughts are “swimming” around in my head and the water helps me let them pour out.  It could be just as simple as the fact that so much of us is composed of water and we developed in fluid that we feel a deep connection with it.  Who really knows?  I do believe it works though, and that’s what matters most.

So, what are your reasons?

Suspended in time

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water streams hitting each other creating big splashes

As some water comes down and hits the water stream being shot up, horizontal splashes form.

smaller splashes of water

Check out all the shapes that appear and disappear in a fraction of a second.

water droplets suspended midair

And as the water falls down, it rains down in many droplets.

Proud Chinese

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As the flag was raised for a Chinese gold medal winner at the Paralymics 2008, those around me proudly sang the national anthem.  Check out the exuberant boy!

chinese anthem from Mary Qin on Vimeo.

After the storms

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Now that the weather has cleared up in LA, things are looking beautiful!  Click on the pictures to see a larger size.

mountains covered in snow in the distance

All the rainfall meant plenty of snow those mountains!

green hills with snowy mountain range as backdrop

I loved the red-roofed set of buildings, the freshly green hills, and the snowy white mountain range beyond.

view over rooftops of snowy mountains in distance

From my backyard, without a zoom, this is the view you get.

frost on hot tub cover

The cover for our hot tub was covered in frost in the morning!

close-up of frost on hot tub cover

Check out the detail of the little ice bits.

I love when the air is crisper and cleaner.  LA without smog is fabulous.  Everything looks so much brighter now!

Phishing scams

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I often get junk mail that tries to come off as legit, and half the time I have to laugh because their attempts are just SO pathetic.  Take this one I got:

phishing scam e-mail

Seriously?  You expect me to fall for that when you are using multiple fonts, no images, and don’t know more than two of the numbers in my account?!  Besides, those two numbers aren’t even right.  Ultimate FAIL.  Plus, when I hover over the link, I can see that the address it would take me to is complete bogus, seeing as it’s hosted on realdragonhk.com.  I’ve also never received such a plain e-mail from American Express, which always includes their logo (hey, every chance to build branding, right?) and uses HTML to create a nice layout that also shows me an image of the type of card I have.

I really hope that people are smart enough not to fall for things like this.  And if they somehow do, I hope their spyware is good enough to catch these ridiculous sites and redirect them elsewhere.  Honestly though, you’ve got to miss a lot of big, fat, and bright red warning flags to not notice.  The next time you receive one of these, I’d advise you to report it and then delete it.  Most sites have a fraud protection area where they give you an e-mail address you can forward it to – I know I’ve done so for this one, a fake IRS one, and I believe a Bank of America one.  Certainly most banks and credit card companies are well aware of this issue and have set up appropriate channels for you to go through.  That way, they can be alert of all the scams out there and get those sites flagged and removed ASAP.

Burrowing clams

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I am fascinated by sea creatures because sometimes I don’t think of them as alive until I see them in action (and even then, I’m incredulous).  Clams are definitely one of the mystery animals out there, especially considering they’re so shy and hide all the time!  So here I was, going paparazzi-crazy on the clams that covered the shore of Patong Beach in Phuket, Thailand. Some were teeny, some were huge, some were quick movers and other slowly dug their way…

little clam burrowing from Mary Qin on Vimeo.

slow burrowing clam from Mary Qin on Vimeo.

happy burrowing clam from Mary Qin on Vimeo.

three burrowing clams from Mary Qin on Vimeo.

Does this not fascinate you too? Is it just me?

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