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Closing time

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I’m often disappointed with the all too prompt closing times that stores and restaurants have.  I remember one time nearly two years ago when Ninja and I rushed down to a Japanese restaurant in Westwood, arriving 20 minutes before they close only to find they were turning in early for the night.  I understand that by that time, everyone is eager to call it a day and close up shop, but if you claim to be open until a certain time and don’t stick to it, that’s just poor customer service.  Sadly, this seems to be a common occurrence, as I found today when I showed up to a drug store just as they were supposed to be closing only to find the doors were locked and the people inside were just cashiers cleaning out.

Good service would be the restaurant that doesn’t close its doors and stop serving food until the very minute they claim they are open until.  Good service would be the store that allows that one last customer to sneak by and buy something at closing.  Good service is going that extra step to make sure that people who want to be a customer get to be.  Otherwise, you risk losing your customer base to your competitors, who may be treating them better by staying open longer or being more flexible with closing.  One thing’s for certain: I lose respect for companies that are so overly eager to close up shop each night, inconvenicing me after all my effort to get there on time.

They know how to do things right.

They know how to do things right.

Once two summers ago, I even called a frozen yogurt store just before going and got there but two minutes too late.  Had they told me on the phone, don’t worry, we’ll wait a few minutes for you, they could have made one more big sale and kept me a happy returning customer.  I opt for their competitors now and that shop has closed down anyway.  There’s no better way to make a good impression than to stay open a little longer to make your customers happy.  It’s like Kohl’s sales – they say it lasts until 2 PM, then as the time nears, they make an announcement to prolong the sale until 4 PM if it’s still going strong, then again if they’re still getting a good response.  That makes customers feel valued and they get to enjoy more time to buy more things.  Win-win, isn’t it?

Quality (and satisfying) service.  That's what I'm talking about!

Quality (and satisfying) service. That's what I'm talking about!

You can really tell a good company by their willingness to keep their doors open and their registers on.  It’s also reflected in the employees’ attitudes, which is a major reason for whether or not you can sneak in the last purchase.  Panda and I had a great experience at Chick-fil-a on Labor Day, when we went in to get the free chicken burger offer for wearing our favorite team’s logo.  Arriving just past 7, we found the entire mall shutting down, much to our surprise.  We rushed to find the Chick-fil-a in the food court and saw that their lights had been turned off and it looked like they were closed.  Desperate, we decided to go check it out anyway, since we saw some people loitering by their registers and we didn’t drive all that way to leave empty-handed.  Thankfully, the ladies working there were still taking orders and serving customers, all of whom left with happy hearts.  Now that’s some great service!  They were still serving us after closing time even though all we were getting was free food!  Panda was telling me how they are a respectful company known for their good practices and I don’t doubt it.  I’ve definitely gained an appreciation for them, both because of their food quality and superb customer service.

So to all you out there who might work for or run a business that involves customers visiting, a word to the wise… keep your doors open at least until the time you say they will be!  You’ll build a much stronger customer base that way.

Reusable toting

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photo credit: ecopromosonline.com

photo credit: ecopromosonline.com

Everywhere you go now, you can find those “eco-bags” available around every corner, in every shop.  It’s one of those fads that everyone seems to buy into, but it makes me wonder if it’s worth all the hype.  Sure, it’s great to have sturdy bags like that that you can use and reuse time and time again.  But the problem is, a solution like that doesn’t quite work without the full commitment of the people as well.  They’ve got to change their behavior to match the goals of producing those reusable tote bags: conservation.  If everyone used just one or two of those bags with every grocery run (or even any sort of shopping), a lot can be saved.  But the problem is, people are getting these things, then forgetting to bring them along to use each time they go out.  Every now and then they may decide to just get another one and use them all the next time.  But of course, without a change in habits, you’ll never get around to it.

I was reminded of this when I read about a lady who has reached the brink and decided she has enough of these bags now.  It’s more harmful to overproduce these bags than the cheap plastic ones we’ve grown accustomed to.  After all, they require more material and certainly more energy to create.  If people still use too many of them, the problem we have doesn’t go away – it merely mutates.  So, recently, I have made sure that whenever Panda and I go shopping for food, we bring our collection of reusable bags or suffer the consequences of having to carry everything we bought with no bags (or maybe just one to be used for collecting trash in).  We also walk to the store, which is a 15- to 20-minute trip by foot.  After spending the time and energy to get there only to find we forgot to bring bags, it’s a personal punishment to not use bags as a way of drilling that habit into our routine.  Lately I’ve begun to hang the bags on the door so it’s harder to disregard them as we head out the door and it’s been working!  I’ve become more conscious of the steps to take before going out to buy some food.

photo credit: ilovecostco.com

photo credit: ilovecostco.com

Costco’s a great place that does away with the whole bag concept and uses boxes, if anything, to pack up your cart.  Though it never hit me until Panda mentioned it, perhaps I like that place for that very fact (and of course the fact that they offer bulk items).  It works really well because the type of bags they’d have to get to hold the items they sell really isn’t worth all the waste it would create (though I’m sure they’d make great doubles as large trash bags).  I think all stores should either do away with bags or start charging a premium that will really make people rethink (what would that take? A quarter a bag? A dollar a bag?).  Any bags used should also be biodegradable, so people can take them home, use them for trash, then not worry about them clogging up the landfills permanently.  The SunChips people have this great new compostable bag coming out that is completely biodegradable within weeks!  Wouldn’t it be awesome if supermarkets used that kind of material?

Next step is to start bringing my own mugs and bottles to be filled when I get fast food.

A squirmy surprise

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Thank goodness Panda had me completely peel all the corn before taking it home!  Poor guy got squished when the checkout lady "took care" of him.  :(

Thank goodness Panda had me completely peel all the corn before taking them home! Poor guy got squished when the checkout lady "took care" of him. 🙁

Of course the one time I go to the grocery store without my camera is the one time there’s something interesting to document.  Thank goodness for cell phones doubling as cameras these days!

Greening: to each his own

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opp greenI’ve finally gotten a chance to join the green movement by helping out at Opportunity Green!  It’s something that’s been on my mind lately as I tried to figure out what way I wanted to make a difference in this climate crisis of ours.  There’s been a lot of talk about the bad shape our environment is in, from the oceans to the air to the land, yet amazingly, the reaction still seems minuscule compared to the problem.  I’ve read and listened to countless speeches on how the polar ice caps melting and coral reefs dying off can have dire consequences for us all.  I’ve always wanted to do something about it, but there are so many options out there that I don’t really know where to start and I’m tempted to try everything, but I think we all know that’s unrealistic.  So, I’ve decided on the divide and conquer strategy by starting somewhere – anywhere.

A company with a motto of use less.

A company with a motto of use less.

I think the easiest way to reduce my carbon footprint is to use less.  Use less energy, use less water, and buy less in general.  I’ve never really cared to eat much meat, so I’ve definitely minimized my footprint by not encouraging the unsustainable ways that Americans produce and consume meat products, particularly beef.  Another type of conservation is to turn off all lights that aren’t necessary and turn off and unplug appliances not in use.  I’ve been making it a point to unplug my laptop as soon as I notice the battery is fully charged, then re-plugging it only when it hits the 6% mark and starts to shut down on me.  I try to use less water for showering and reuse as much from dishwashing as I can (usually to water the plants).  Oh, and I never use the dishwasher to wash dishes.  I try not to run the AC at all, and minimally if needed.

organicA harder thing for me to do right now is buy all-natural, organic, local, or fair trade products.  With no income, I’ve got to go for cheapest over other benefits.  However, my mom and I have been living an essentially waste-free life for a few months now.  We compost all the perishable items that we don’t completely consume.  We recycle the plastics, cardboard, aluminum, and glass that we may come across.  The other items are the little bit of trash left over that we do have, which doesn’t amount to that much at the end of the day.  In fact, my mom has even canceled our trash-collecting service.  I’m working on buying less bottles and opted for a powder to mix my own drinks.  I reuse plastic bags like crazy and have stopped leaving a grocery stores with a handful of bags in tow.  Instead I try to remember my reusable bags, otherwise I “punish” myself by carrying the items separately.  I’ve even dragged Panda into that lifestyle and don’t let him be wasteful when we shop for food.

photo credit: spacetoday.org

photo credit: spacetoday.org

I feel guilty every time I have to drive my car, so I’ll feel better when I get a hybrid (which won’t happen until I land a job).  It won’t be the best solution, but it’ll be a great improvement, and certainly better than how things are now.  I wish electric cars were a more viable option, but they’re not quite practical for me right now.  I’m working to make small improvements here and there.  I may not be able to suddenly outfit my house with solar panels, drive a pollutant-free car, or buy organic or local, but I can use natural ventilation as much as possible, drive a hybrid, and eat less useless food.  I can also use reuse more so I end up using less.  I really need to start bringing my own mug/bottle with me when I get drinks outside.  With enough time, behavior like this can become second nature and I no longer have to think about it and remind myself to do it.

We all must do something about the climate, but it can be on your own terms.  So go ahead, choose one way to change your lifestyle for the better of the environment and start acting now!

Cautionary advice

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For the past couple of days I have not been the best of moods with my mother.  Time and time and again, she has spoken about relationships in a way that make me feel like she is critiquing Panda when she knows nothing about how our relationship works.  To her, she is giving me advice to forewarn me of many issues that can crop up so I am aware.  To me, she is just doubtful of this relationship being a good one and working out the way that I expect it to.  And so, listening to her talk about it always makes me grumpy, because it is not like that, he is not like that, and I am certainly not like that either.

It started with talking about my place in his life.  Am I his priority or would he put his career potential or parents ahead of me?  In trying to illustrate his cautious nature, I mentioned a time where he asked if his job potential would be hindered by me.  My mom read that as him not sure if I am important enough to give up a better job for.  She also assumed that just because I consoled him and said that it wouldn’t happen, I didn’t ask him what he would do if it did. Though I didn’t directly ask him, since then we have talked about many issues that have shown me all that he is willing to sacrifice, or change, for me.

A similar thing goes for his mom, who is hugely protective of him – would he let me get in the way of their mother-child relations?  This one I’ve asked directly and he has promised that there will be a point down the line when I become the most important woman in his life.  I don’t need that yet, but certainly I won’t put up with deferring to his mother forever.  I have also clearly indicated my complete lack of interest in having our parents live with us.  Live near?  Sure, but not with.  I value my privacy and independence far too much for that.  I just hope that she will not try to be around all the time and can be content with certain weekends or afternoons/nights.

My mother said that you don’t have just a relationship with someone; you have a relationship with his family.  And though that is probably true enough, I’m not willing to stop trying if the family proves to want very different things than me.  However, she seemed to insinuate that any man who has a clingy mother should be stayed away from.  Far away.  I think it’s completely unfair to curse a guy for how his parents might act (and might is important here – after all, there’s no proof they’d be clingy in the future).  Though your circumstances often dictate your personality, it doesn’t have to.  Not all kids growing up in tough neighborhoods become criminals, just as not all kids growing up in affluence become successful.

I know my mom means well in the end, wanting to make sure I’ve thought of all of these “what ifs” and glitches that can tear a relationship apart.  What she doesn’t know is how well we’ve handled things.  Communication is still very much open and though we approach life differently, we share many crucial principles.  Many things have already been discussed and we know where we stand with them and for the more unpredictable things, we’re willing to work together and compromise.  Perhaps it is just because my mom has not had a chance to understand how maturely we handle our relationship, but right now her advice falls upon annoyed ears.

Young alum mixin’ it up!

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Yay free things!  I <3 all things Bruin.

Yay free things! I <3 all things Bruin.

Today I attended my first alumni event, a young alumni mixer held in the San Fernando Valley.  People from a variety of backgrounds showed up, ranging from fresh-ish grads such as myself from the Class of ’08 to people as far back as the class of ’98, and grad students as well.  It was a nice event, with free appetizers and some raffle items.  I was the first one to show up, even after I found that my original parking spot is permit-only and had to move my car a very long block away.  The place was strewn with lots of small gifts that people could take at will, like Class of ’09 cups, Class of ’08 keychains, Class of ’07 stickers, etc.

I sat down to chat with a few people and when the appetizers came, I munched my way through quite a bit before curbing my hunger.  I met a bunch of interesting people – a guy who was my year, a Chem major who is doing R&D work now; two girls who were ’04, one is a third grade teacher and the other a nurse at UCLA; a guy who was ’06 Psychology, now working on techie stuff for UCLA Biomed or something like that; a lady who was ’06 Music History and History, and has been a professional musician for 25 years; a girl who was ’03 and is working at the UCLA Fund; and a few others who work for UCLA, as well as a handful of people in the environmental field.  I got a nice lead with Ms. UCLA Fund, who told me to let her know when I submit my application for a job on campus that I would really like to have.

DSC07651As luck would have it, I also won a raffle item and chose to take home the mug.  I was a sucker for the gold trim and black and white image of Royce Hall.  I was almost tempted to get the mouse pad, but then I realized I never use one.  This clocks in as the second mug I’ve won and one of many that I have unofficially collected over the years.  I will never forget my beautiful black mug from Gallery and Toff’s (two nightclubs in York), which I got during Fresher Week when I first arrived for my year studying at the Uni of York.  I think it’s the sturdiness, yet fragile nature of them that make me feel they are valuable enough.  Everyone’s a winner when I win things, because I get really excited and that brings a smile to most everyone’s face (except for the super bitter who reaaally wanted to win too, I suppose).

I had nothing else to do, so I stayed quite late chatting with these people.  The last guy I had an extensive talk with kept calling me a cougar because Panda is two years older than me.  🙁  He was teasing, of course, but for some reason I was very eagerly trying to deny his allegations.  He joked that I go to high school proms to pick up guys and buy underage kids alcohol to bribe them, all ridiculous notions, but I still defended myself.  I’ve had my share of pseudo-dating but I’ve quite happily settled on my first and only boyfriend, thank you very much.  But hey, cougar is better than cradle-robber, right?  And so I concluded my night, taste buds happy with the food, mind pleased with the service, and overall a very positive feel about the night.

Somehow I didn’t take a single picture there though…

Panda party

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This weekend, Panda and I spent two days hanging out with Opti and Doc before Opti’s off to optometry school next week.  It’s not like she’s going far away, but it’ll be worse than a full-time job, what with classes all day, every day during the week, then constant studying for frequent tests.  So to celebrate her last weekend of freedom, we planned a little mini vacation that became more of a “stay-cation,” as Doc pointed out when we had to change sleepover residences from my house, which is a bit out of the way, to Panda’s apartment, which is right in the middle of everything we’re familiar with.  Nonetheless, it was a really nice weekend where we pigged out, bummed out, and hung out.

DSC07579It started Saturday with dim sum, where we also ate with Cherry (who was also an Orientation Counselor with us last year) and Envie (Panda’s brother).  It was really nice to catch up with Cherry, who just completed a rigorous summer program, and meet Brother, who I’ve heard about over the months, but never gotten more than an impression of.  After we filled our bellies with delectable tidbits, we went across the way to a photo sticker machine place and took some fun shots together.  Between the six of us we managed to squeeze into one booth and split the sixteen copies of the four shots we printed, then split off.  I took Panda, Envie, and Cherry back before spinning back to get Opti and Doc, who had gone back to Opti’s so she could pack for the overnight.

Panda family: Baby, Pete & Paulie, and Scooter.

Panda family: Baby, Pete & Paulie, and Scooter.


Opti, Doc, and I got drinks at my favorite boba place and went to meet Panda at his place.  He had gone home to get his stuff and drive back to the apartment on his own.  Opti and I had both gotten pandas as gifts from our respective boyfriends, so we brought them along with us for a little “panda party” and first-time meeting.  When we got to the apartment, everyone was in a lazy mood, so we settled down for some channel surfing followed by afternoon naps.  We got up around dinnertime and got ready to head out to Benihana’s, which, as usual, was jam-packed.  We were told the wait was a ridiculous 90 minutes, but I didn’t believe it, so we put our names down and wandered around the areas, checking out some stores and enjoying the brisk air before spinning around again about 45 minutes later.

DSC07600As I thought, the wait was drastically shorter than the guy told us, so we were seated about an hour after we had originally arrived.  Unfortunately, restaurants of this type work at a slow pace, casually letting you soak in the atmosphere and enjoy your soup and salad before the chef shows up to entertain the table.  We were ravenous and didn’t get fed substantial food until about 10 o’clock.  The performance was fun, but not as flashy as others I’ve seen and the fried rice was very tasty, but the chicken was a bit chewy and bland.  The vegetables were juicy, but not my favorite thing to eat and the shrimp was pretty good with the provided sauce.  Overall I felt the experience was average and probably not worth the money, so I think I’ll look for cheaper alternatives to this type of dining next time.  It was nice to share it in a double date kind of setting though.

When we got back, we began a game of Snerds, the Orientation past time for staff last year.  We started off rusty as we tried to recall the rules, but soon enough, the fervor that we played with last year re-emerged and we played with a zeal that was unhindered by the nearly two-hour power outage.  When the lights went off, we just rearranged the laptops so they shone on the ground we were using, and though our eyes strained to tell if a card was red or black as our brains strained to register that diamonds and hearts are red and clubs and spades are black, we continued on without a thought of taking a break.  Eventually, the lights came back on and we rejoiced that we could play much faster and more efficiently.  We carried on for about another hour before calling it quits for the night and heading to bed.

DSC07609This morning, Panda woke up early and couldn’t quite get back to sleep, but the rest of us slept in until we lethargically pulled ourselves up and decided that we were due for some brunch.  We walked down to a cafe that serves breakfast all day and uses fresh ingredients to make tasty sandwiches, burgers, and of course, the standard breakfast foods as well.  From there, it was time to resume our carding craze until dinner.  Throughout the game, the boys got chastised by the girls, who were both whooping the boys for the majority of the time.  We can get pretty sassy and have a fun time bantering back and forth flirtatiously.  The guys learned that they just couldn’t win unless they placated us.  😛

Opti and Doc had to head off early-ish, so we ordered some pizza that we picked up and scarfed down before their ride arrived to take them off to take care of the business they needed to at night.  Panda and I sent them off, and with that returned to a much emptier apartment that felt lonely.  I hung out for a bit more and left when Panda needed to start getting ready for bed.  We both agreed that we were really happy we could spend this weekend with our friends and hopefully there will be more to come in the near future.  Sometimes it’s just those laidback times where you bum out with your buddies that feel best.  🙂

Ball games

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I seem to only be able to play block or ball-like puzzle/strategy games and when I do, I do so with a zest.  Recently I have been obsessed with three of them, in three different mediums.  On my iPod touch, there’s Bubble Burst; on the computer, there’s Bubble Spinner; and in real life there’s Lonpos.  All use balls in different ways to create games that I find addicting to play.  I guess part of it is because I can be decently good at them and part of it stems from my Tetris gaming days.  Sometimes I find myself playing these things for hours, shooting for amazing results.  So much time goes into them!

bubble burst iphone game high score

My high score on the easy level.


Bubble Burst is a game where balls fall into a given box region and you tap ones of the same color to get rid of them.  Mystery boxes fall down and you tap them to get prizes, which can be good or bad.  Sometimes the balls will bounce right out of the container and with each one you lose, a life is lost until you die.  This is a fun game for me to play whenever I am on the road, since I can just pull out my iPod and tap away.  The unfortunate thing is that you can’t save it mid-game, so you have to either finish or quit before you can access the other functions on your device.  However, you can press the power button to turn off the game and essentially freeze it until you decide to continue playing.  My high score on this game reached 28,007,888 once!  That was on the normal level though; for the hard level I usually shoot for 400,000 and for the extreme level I go for 200,000.

bubble spinner game on deadwhale.com
Bubble Spinner is a game that Panda introduced to me.  A sextagonal shape of balls appears, spinning on a center.  You shoot balls at it and get rid of ones of the same color if there are three or more when you shoot your ball.  With each hit, the “wheel” spins accordingly and you have to work with some crazy angles on this thing.  Gray balls along the bottom indicate how many more balls you can throw without making the minimum three before you get attacked by extra balls flying in.  When you get rid of all the balls, a new set appears and with each level up, that is how many points you get per ball removed.  What I love best about this game is that there is absolutely no time pressure, so if you need to get distracted, you can leave the game without pausing and come back whenever you want.  Sometimes you lose out a little if you pause on a game that is timed, but there’s no worries like that for this one.  They’ve also got some random “soothing” music playing in the background, which is nice to listen to at times.  My high score on that one is 56,374.  Oh, and this is one you can share your score for on Facebook, if you’re into competing with your friends.

lonpos game of plastic pieces like tetris

There are 12 pieces in all, ranging between 3 and 5 balls connected in a unique shape.


Finally, Lonpos is a game I discovered when at a friend’s relative’s place in Germany.  They are kind of like tetris pieces, but fit into a triangular shape container.  It takes a certain spatial ability to perfectly fit them all in one of the 15 possible ways.  The more complicated versions then turn them into 3D puzzles.  It’s hard to explain until you try it.  I’ve managed to solve the basic one a few times, though it always takes awhile, and back in Germany I got the 3D ones but now I forget how they work.  I really wanted one when I first found out about it nearly two years ago, but I could only find it online for over $100 (and if I remember correctly, closer to $160!).  Thank goodness I waited – I found this set in Hong Kong for only HKD 10!  🙂

And there you have it – my gaming obsessions.  Nothing nearly as complicated as video games or whatever else is out there.  I prefer simple balls, used in creative ways.

Cabaret

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Tonight, Panda, Opti, Doc, and I went for a spin back at our old stomping grounds – the cabaret performance that Orientation Staff puts on for incoming first years.  Cabaret consists of a series of acts that include musical numbers and some skits.  O-Staff creates all of the performances, generally with a spirited Bruin theme, to get these students pumped up to join the UCLA Bruin family.  A lot of inside jokes are shared, including the famous one: “A Trojan is good only once, but a Bruin is forever.”  Of course, we can’t avoid a bit of good-humored poking at the USC Trojans, who are our arch-rivals.  The UCLA-USC rivalry is probably the greatest intra-city rivalry in the nation, so we’ve got to teach the incoming classes to be prideful!

Just being back on campus for the first time in months was nice, with everything so familiar, yet with bits of new developments showing up, like the new police station that is partly built now and the area by Pauley Pavilion that’s fenced off for the tennis tournament.  Entering the ballroom just before the performance brought back memories of when I used to groove to the music and go for a few spins around the large room on my longboard.  Then it was just spotting after spotting of people we knew, from those who have been around for 4 or 5 years to those who joined when I did last year.  I went around saying hi and hugging as many people as I could find amongst the crowd before settling down to watch the show.

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The staff on stage teaching the 8-clap.

Many of the acts were still familiar and some were new, but the same Orientation flavor was in all of them.  It was my first time truly seeing it as an audience member and it went by faster than I remembered.  The four of us marveled afterward in how much shorter it seemed to feel, but in looking at the time, it didn’t seem that much shorter.  Strange, isn’t it?  I guess being backstage and part of the acts makes it seem like a lot more time passes.  At times, Panda was tempted to help out his fellow engineer and a returning counselor, Ra, who seemed to be the only one doing stage crew work most of the evening.  I remembered last year how I’d help out here and there, though sometimes I’d feel like I was more in the way when there were too many hands helping out.

It was really nice to go back and see everyone again.  I feel very out of place with the people I don’t know, but it’s almost as if not much has changed with those who I do know.  I still think of them as fondly and remember those wonderful days of living up in a beautiful residence hall with the staff that I got to spend so much time with last summer.  I loved what we did and the time I spent fulfilling a dream I’d had since I was a little high school graduate, ready to embark on my college career.  Though my memories of my own Orientation experience are limited to a general positive feeling and scattered memories of fun times, it left a lasting impression and I’m really glad I got the chance to work on O-Staff before I lost that opportunity.  Plus, I got to meet Panda there.  🙂

In transit

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Oh no!  I’ve missed a day, so I will make a quick belated entry.

Friday morning started with a very groggy me lounging in bed half-awake, trying to will myself up when I got a call from Mizu.  Thinking it was my alarm, I picked up the object ringing at me and pressed something, apparently picking up.  I read the screen and wondered why Mizu’s name appeared when it dawned on me that I had picked up the phone.  Confused, I spoke into it and found him speaking back to me, telling me he’d be there in just a few minutes.  I rushed to get ready and woke up Typea as planned, so he could help lock up after I went out.  It took some stuffing, but we managed to get all my luggage in the car, all the while wondering how we managed to do it the first time around, even with a full car.  With that, we were off to pick up Zen and meet Starfish at the airport.

I can't believe this is the only picture I took in the airport.

I can't believe this is the only picture I took in the airport.

I checked in with no problems and even had 5 kg to spare in one of my bags, so I added some more to it from my carry-on.  The four of us got some breakfast together and then said our goodbyes as I headed in.  Once I made it through the passport check, I waved to my little sending party and went to my gate.  I enjoyed the free internet they had and sent an e-mail to Panda before I boarded the plane for the first leg of the trip.  I had been given an emergency exit window seat for more leg room, but I hadn’t realized that the window would be so far away when I had agreed to it, so I regretted my decision.  The trip to Tokyo was fast and painless and soon enough it was time to get off, go through security, and reboard the plane with a fresh crew.

This time I asked for any other window seat and the air hostess got a guy to switch seats with me.  I had a nice chat with the people sitting next to me and then enjoyed a few movies before taking a nap.  Unfortunately, much of the latter part of the ride was suffered in discomfort as the girl sitting behind me put her knees up on the back of my chair and began to move around constantly, kicking, kneeing, and pushing the seat annoyingly.  I decided to take it as an erratic massage or a broken massage chair of sorts.  I didn’t know if bringing it up would just make it worse, so I just kept moving around every time she did.  I definitely liked her best when she was asleep.  At least I figured out why my chair wouldn’t lean back at first when I tried earlier on.

Looks like an upside-down dolphin.  Where are we?

Looks like an upside-down dolphin. Where are we?

After way too long, we had breakfast and began our descent into LAX.  I watched the scenery pass by, trying to spot the UCLA campus or anything else I may recognize, but I couldn’t tell which cluster of tall buildings was downtown and everything else looked unrecognizable.  Coming out, I found Tom Bradley International Terminal to be under construction – yet another thing that looked foreign to me.  However, once I got out to the street, I was back in my comfort zone, familiar with the area and accent, content with the sunshine and temperature, and ready to be on my way.  I patiently waited for Panda for about 40 minutes (he couldn’t get off work too early) and happily spotted him 15 minutes early!  We loaded up my stuff and I clung to him, thrilled to be able to feel him again.  He’s gotten thinner from the busy, stressful days lately, but gosh, he looks good dressed up.

We got some Quizno’s for lunch and ran a few errands before crashing at his place, which I got to see for the first time.  I was given a card and key so I can let myself in as needed and he read his card to me, as we like to do.  We don’t have an anniversary day, but it’s about that time, so he got me a Happy Anniversary card.  🙂  I gave him the tie and cuff links I bought him and promised him his other gift the next time I see him, since that one was buried somewhere in my luggage.  We got to hang out for a few hours before my mom came to pick me up and get dinner.  I spent the rest of the night unpacking and telling my mom stories about all the things I had acquired (which really wasn’t much).  Strangely, I don’t feel like I was gone for so long.  Everything is pretty much as it was and I immediately fell back into most of my old life patterns.  Things do smell different though.

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